I’m not sure how the moding system works – and if a mod could explain if I’m wrong or right in the below assumptions, it would be appreciated.
I’m working under the assumptions that it’s overwhelmingly not the moderators maintaining the standards when it comes to answers from users – but the users themselves. The user flags the question, giving a reason why, and then the mods review. I doubt that very often, or at least in the majority of the cases, mods start taking out responses without the response being flagged.
Therefore, the moderated responses are subject to two or perhaps three levels of review – the flagger (or flaggers) and the moderator. If it is in the general section, in essence, the user has limited the responses considered acceptable already – the initial level of “review” there. A response is not moderated unless the mods agree. And they are not taken out for the reason listed unless the moderators agree. More often a response will be flagged and not removed. And I have flagged answers and characterized them one way, and the mod has chosen a more neutral reason to list as the reason for the removal. I have begged, in fact, to have certain of my answers modded – but if they were in social, that was often refused based on a concern for the overall consistency of the thread. One time I remember asking another be removed as it referred to me and suggested something about me that actually could have been interpreted as characterizing me as a terrorist with nuclear capabilities. Although it was clearly a jab, I was applying for a federal job at the time, and didn’t want anything to get in the way – the mods refused my request because it was in social, privileging the integrity of the thread over my personal concerns. I think that to accuse the mods of being akin to censors is reactionary, therefore.
Posts on the general section, in fact, much of the time have off-topic answers, or quips, that I’ve seen that are not removed – likely because the user didn’t flag the answer, and no one else did. Therefore, I think the mods get flack where none is deserved.
What I don’t understand is when people get riled because of a moderated response. I’m with @Pied_Pfeffer on this. I don’t care, but sometimes am confused. I posted a thread in the general section that asked something very specific. Some responses were given that didn’t respond to the information requested. I flagged them, and they were removed. Prior to them being removed, I immediately sent the users PMs explaining why I had flagged it so they wouldn’t be surprised. In both cases…I was sent messages that included personal attacks on how I was wrong to do so – and both repeated their posts or comments about the mods thereafter on the same thread. I sent the messages so the mods wouldn’t be blamed, and so the users wouldn’t be surprised and know why – and if they wanted to post could include the information they wanted, as well as the information requested.
I would say that, in the cases I’ve seen, those who are complaining about the moderation aren’t paying attention to how they’re responding, or reading the question thoroughly. If you want your answer respected and left, know the section, and read the question, including the details. Then, I doubt anyone would have a response moderated. Have the respect, I say, to deal with the issue in the way the OP requests – or start your own thread, site, etc. to deal with the issues as you’d like them dealt with.