(NSFW) What is the tell-tale sign specific to your partner that lets you know that they want sex that night?

All I need is a certain look in my direction and it’s on.

When she gets that eye of the tiger.

My wife and I have great conversations. I love talking to her about all sorts of things.

Sometimes, when my daughter isn’t around (sleepover at Nonna’s FTW), I’ll be thrilled to dive into a subject with her.

On such occasions, she has said to me, “How about you shut up and fuck your wife.”

So, she’s pretty direct.

I haven’t discovered one but we a lot of sex so something is happening right.

He’ll send me a text during the day when he is working, saying what he’d like to do to me. ;)

With her, they will be a look in her eyes and a devilish smile, then she’ll reach out and touch me (usually my chest). With me, I go up behind her while she’s standing, say, wrap my one arm around her, cupping her breast and the other slides down to her ass.

It’s funny. Like much in our marriage, it seems to happen by telepathy. We know each other so well, that the signals are too tiny to be identified. She likes to keep me wondering, but just doing that is enough to tell me she wants to.

For all that I talk here, I think I am silent at home. I would do anything for her (and have), but there’s still a lot of mind-reading that goes on here. She is incredibly sensitive to any disagreement with her at all, but particularly on issues of politics or religion. And by disagreement, I mean just about anything where we are not totally in agreement.

So we stay on safe topics, and we have hired an intermediary to help us deal with the difficult ones. It’s nice to be able to afford that. But this means that we can’t criticize each other, so we have had to develop mind-reading skills in order to navigate the particular mine (mind) fields we live in.

I think if people watched us, they would laugh with amazement and they have to cut off their tongues if they wanted to resist the urge to kibbitz. For all we may have wisdom for others, we seem like village idiots when it comes to ourselves. Both of us are in the advising business, but damn! We sure could use some of our own advice around here!

So we just know. We have different libidos, so I’m always ready if she is. Of course, once it starts, it is such a beautiful thing. But you all know that. I always find it amazing that something so personal is actually shared by just about everybody on the planet,

I don’t really have anything personal to contribute, but I will relate a story I heard about a couple my gf works/ed with who relied on a “Please” and “Thank You” pillow on their bed. Barf.

@kevbo lol…. I don’t know if I should laugh or cry…or barf. Yeah, barf.

When she grabs my penis.

When the before bedtime shower goes a little longer than usual.

When she starts sniffing & rutting at my crotch, coupled with howling at the moon….....I kinda take the hint! :¬)

A man just married… realized his bride was shy… so he set up a signal system… ‘If you want to have sex… pull on my thing once… if you don’t… pull on it a hundred times!’
That is a good tell tale sign!

He asks “Wanna do it?” I wish I was kidding.