@The_Idler These “Americans” you make reference to for destroying native american culture and taking their land; they were Europeans. Or, does that not factor in, because they were the Europeans who left the mother land? I am not defending what was done to the Native Americans, I’m just saying to look at Americans in history as more violent or domineering than Europe seems disengenuous. The Brits occupied and controlled land all over the place, dumped their criminals on land it laid claim to. Of course we know many of the original settlers to come to the Americas were Spanish, and later to the US in particular the British and Germans, etc.
@all It seems some of it is relative. It appears to me that the people who live currently or immigrated from another country have a different perspective than someone who is 3rd generation or more American. I feel like some of what is in our head and hearts does not show through to the world. Part of it is the media I think, how we are represented to the rest of the world, which I think is in some part our own fault. I don’t disagree that Americans consume a lot, but it seems to me when people all over the world get their hands on money and have opportnity to buy, they behave similarly; not everyone, but not everyone here either. America for many years had a flourishing middle class, and credit. Line of credit probably affected us the most. But, again, many of the immigrants I know were happy to have all of the “things” once they got here, made some money, and could get a credit card. I guess ironically, in a way, I am supporting the idea that it is the American way.
Meanwhile, my parents, who were born here, are very frugal, not material thing oriented at all. Keep their cars 8–10 years, live in their same small townhouse, they spend very little money. My Mexican husband, born and raised in Mexico, has three Porsches in our garage. He was given a new car every year growing up as a teen, they travelled and stayed in expensive resorts, his sister spends thousands on handbags, significant money on her hair, and being primped in general, clothing with designer labels. They were not and are not wealthy, but they like to spend on nice things, spend way more than I ever would, and desire more things than I ever do.
The other person I dated for a significant amount time when I was in high school, his family was from Ecuador. They loved nice things also, very similar to my husband’s family. Cars, watches, name brands, etc. My closest American friends have modest homes, moderate cars, and shop in the gap. So, that is my world I live in. But, I admit that Americans generally have too much stuff, and don’t understand quality. Buying one quality item, instead of three pieces of junk.