Have you ever asked a question on Fluther that you regretted asking?
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Paradox (
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October 25th, 2010
Whether the reasons would be from negative backlash or a question that just turned into a dud (no/or lack of responses) are there any questions you regretted asking on here?
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Yes. I don’t want to link to it, because I regret it that much.
@TheOnlyNeffie Yeah me too, there’s one I regret so so so much, but I didn’t want to link it so I choose the last one I regretted.
I’m with @TheOnlyNeffie. Yes, I have asked at least one question I regret asking but if you expect me to rat myself out that just ain’t going to happen. No links. But one time I asked a question late at night and woke up thinking about it and really wishing I hadn’t asked it and when I logged on later that day I found out that it had been sent back to editing. I couldn’t have been happier. I clicked abandon question and that was that.
Oh yeah, specific personal stuff that could be linked back to me should the person in question ever stumble upon Fluther.
@lillycoyote consider me jealous.
@SundayKittens ditto, mostly. Just too personal a question. I didn’t realise I’d be sticking around.
Yes, at the time I was upset and needed some imput. The question was sent to edit I should have cancelled it then, but I did not. I went ahead and now I have a reminder.
I did ask a question that I regretted the way that I worded it, because it caused a backlash and did not engender the type of discussion that I had hoped for.
Here it is.
Yes, I’ve asked the mods to take down a question when I thought it could be read by someone who could be hurt by it.
Oh yes. Negative responses, insults, misunderstandings. It was terrible. And no, I will not link to it. I never want to see it again. :)
Ironically I’ve looked around at older questions on here and some of these users are still active on here that’ve asked quite a few misinformed questions where many jumped on the OP. I guess they decided to duck this question altogether.
I think I have an idea by now what questions to avoid asking on here. There are questions I would never ask on here but there are other Q&A websites where I can ask these same questions. Well thanks for the honesty everyone.
@Paradox It’s hard. I’m actually currently fighting an almost overwhelming urge to ask a question I just know I’m going to regret asking. I hope my better judgement wins.
@lillycoyote That’s why I’m a member of three other Q&A websites so I can discuss certain topics that I never could on here.
@Paradox It’s kind of a meta question. It wouldn’t work anywhere else and I can’t manage much more that this place and my two facebook identities. :-)
Uh huh…....This one → People just could not get it and stay on point IMO.
Yes very much so, I too like @johlucmoha wanted input on something I was really upset about and now that I’m past it I am very worried this person will see it. I wish I had not posted it, if they do ever come across it I’m worried it may end badly. Though it took a lot from me to get past it, I don’t want to look back on it and I hope that it’s not a featured story on some blog somewhere or something. That truly is a big fear for me.
No. However, I have asked questions which resulted in answers that I regretted.
@UScitizen I’m getting that right now. I was hoping for a more even balance on opinions. I’m getting smashed on my own question right now,
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