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I want my boyfriend to makeout with me...But i'm too scared to make the first move or talk to him about it..Help me?

Asked by allyvampress (4points) October 26th, 2010

My boyfriend and I have dated for a month. We have kissed,held hands, cuddled, and slept on his couch together. I want to know how to get him to make out with me…

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FutureMemory's avatar

What is your definition of “making out”? I always thought of it as prolonged/intense kissing. Are you talking about doing more than that?

Atacama's avatar

When concerning the romantic, and not the sexual, aspects of love I think everyone should jump right in with wild abandon. Just do it. Don’t question yourself too much, if you want it, take it.

truecomedian's avatar

That’s why some people believe this should be adults only, these crazy kids are obviously twelve. She wants to know how to get frisky with her man. Tell him. Tell him exactly what you want him to do to you, it will blow his mind.

BoBo1946's avatar

Sounds like you have a great guy! You should be honored that he respect you! Slow down @allyvampress !

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nailpolishfanatic's avatar

vovovovov! SLOW DOWN as @BoBo1946 said.
You should take it easy and see where things lead you. One thing always leads to another…

bb9335's avatar

I vote that we take it easy on this girl geeeeeeze. We’ve all been there.

The good thing about your question is that you’re asking about kissing and not sex. Sex is a much bigger deal and she be given great consideration before doing. Kissing on the other hand can still feel amazing, but without any scary possible consequences. I say just do it! He is obviously with you because he likes you, and if he hasn’t done anything yet its probably because he is scared also. Maybe you need to be the ice breaker, who says the guy has to do everything?? :) good luck girl!

tifa's avatar

Just go to a theme park or regular park and say it kinda quickly after a ride or listening to some sort of love song “Hey let’s go over to the/behind the ________ and make out” take his hand and rush over there.

HungryGuy's avatar

[NSFW] When he’s just lying on the couch by himself, walk over and sit on his face. He’ll get the hint…

truecomedian's avatar

@HungryGuy
Oh my god you’re terrible. I guess he should do what you do. Give a little, get a little. A little what…ha

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