Calm and peace or mind-blowing sex, which is a bigger draw for you?

I would take calm and respect each and every time. I would never stay in a relationship if I was being snooped on, fending off arguments, not being trusted. Trust and respect is everything in a relationship. IMO even lukewarm sex can be mind blowing! ;)

Constant stress or colossal boredom??Life is too short to settle for either.
No,thanks,I’ll be single.

Mind blowing sex please. Well I wouldn’t be aware of that other shit would I? My mind in a constant state of blow out from all that humping! Best of both worlds see. I’m a spolit brat me! :¬)

CALM AND PEACE ANY DAY!

Calm and without stress. I guess these are both figurative anyway.

Calm and Peace.

Love is the cake; sex is the icing.

I’d rather have a cloud without a silver lining than no cloud at all.

(I am still awake from last night, forgive me)

I suspect the answers will be heavily age dependent with about 25 being the crossover point.

If I had to choose, give me Calm and Peace any day.

@ucme If you spent all your time boinking so you would not have time for the other you’d have to be independently rich because you could not hold a job; so what is the secret to becoming filthy rich?

@Hypocrisy_Central Fucked if I know.I mean my understanding was this was a purely hypothetical scenario. I answered accordingly.

@noelleptc Nah, the wife would have my guts for garters :¬)

@noelleptc Indeed it is, I mean making garters out of my guts, how ridiculous. Now if it were real, she’d probably fucking kill me.

@noelleptc How nice of you to share that.

Can I just cut my throat and be done with it? For me, a relationship with infrequent and tepid sex wouldn’t be calm, it would be filled with tension, anxiety and frustration- the balm of someone being respectful and trusting wouldn’t hold me for long, at least not at this point in my life. I don’t partner up to live a life of a monk or a nun, yet. The other scenario of lots of great sex but with drama, suspicion and fighting sounds too familiar so I’ll pass on that too. I’ll be out shooting shite up with @lucillelucillelucille.

Been there, done that. I’ll take the peaceful relationship. Having a drama-filled relationship eventually kills sexual desire.

I would take calm and peace. I have been around people who have made my life miserable. Nothing is worse suffering through things that people do to cause you trouble.