@iamthemob
Maybe. Maybe not. ;-)
There is a big difference between expressing ones ‘self’ and engaging in egoic acrobatics from a place of being over identified with being right as a way to bolster ones ego even more.
As I mentioned, I am perfectly okay if someone ‘needs’ to make me wrong or dismiss my experience, but..it does not mean it is true.
I also agree 100% with @judochop
Another component of ‘enlightenment’ is realizing that suffering is a choice and being free of desire, the need for ‘more’ to be added unto one to prop up the false self from the outside in.
This has been one of my greatest breakthroughs, detaching from anything having to be a certain way in order for me to feel happy, whole, complete. It is very liberating to ‘see’ the ways in whuch we attempt to strengthen our false self through external and egoic gain.
Basking in ones being is enough, as it should be. ;-)
Bottom line, if one has to ask what enlightenment is, they have not attained it.
The one life, no separation, and this is not something that can be recognized or conceptualized, it has to be experienced on a deep feeling level.
@RealEyesRealizeRealLies
No apologies needed, but thanks anyway. ;-)
Even enlightenment is subject to egos gyrations…so many misconceptions that ‘spiritual’ people do this or don’t do that, more separation, elitism, ego, hahaha
One of my fav. ‘spiritual’ authors, Eckhart Tolle speaks of this…he says people will say to him ’ you drink coffee…but you wrote a ‘spiritual’ book?’ His response is ’ Oh, I’m sorry’ lol and now he wears a ballcap to starbucks.
Enlightenment does not mean one dresses in sack cloth, renounces all wordly possessions and moves to a cave to live in silence for years. lol
It CAN manifest as that as well, but, ‘enlightenment is not about habit, or personality, or adhering to some strict mandate of what an enlightened person ‘should’ look like, sound like, etc.
Puppetji was an enlightend guru and he was quite the boisterous character, colorful language, smoked, drank.
Just more false concepts.
Most serial killers don’t LOOK like serial killers, and most ‘enlightened’ people don’t look like the images promoted. ;-)