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How do you know if you're in love with someone?

Asked by nayeight (3353points) April 3rd, 2008 from iPhone

I think I love this guy but ive never said it but when im alone I say it to myself. I don’t want to be with him because he isn’t in school like me & isn’t honing to make much of himself in the future but something keeps pulling me back to him for 4 years now. Is it the sex? The idea of him? How do you know you’re in love?

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Riser's avatar

My mom says “Love is more than feeling, it’s doing.”

Your actions of love attest to “true love” much more than fleeting feelings ever will.

I love my mom.

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lovelyy's avatar

you’ll just know.

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El_Cadejo's avatar

yea i agree with what lovelyy says. If your questioning it, its probably not love. Theres nothing like it and you’ll know it when it happens.

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delirium's avatar

Bodily functions don’t matter anymore. Instead of being embarrassed about them, you joke about them and try to outdo eachother, or you just don’t care.

Love is when you don’t try and stop letting the other person know you’re human. You’re not worried about them caring about any of that anymore. You don’t need to impress them.

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babygalll's avatar

You know you are in love when you would rather live in his world than live without him in yours.

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