[NSFW] How do women's sex "toys" compare?

I was told the vibration for the Kawasaki 500 2 stroke triple, was “thrilling” if one tilted forward a bit while sitting in back. I’d ride it a lot more if It worked that way for me.

(I’m going to get a green tea, sit back, relax, and watch this thread.)

Whenever I use my vibrator, I am always guaranteed a very intense orgasm, every time. That’s not always the case if I am having sex with a man. However, if I had to choose between the two, I would almost always go for the actual person. For me, sex isn’t just about an orgasm. I love feeling that connection and intimacy with another person, and I crave that more than I crave an orgasm (usually). But sometimes, I just want to get off quickly with virtually no clean-up needed…that’s when vibrators are a godsend.

In terms of how easily they bring me to orgasm, I’d say vibrators are first, fingers are second, penises third. Sometimes all three can happen at different times in a single session of lovemaking, and that has always been quite fun for me :)

Okay, How many people read frankie’s post and now feel the need for a cigarette?

Dammit, adirondack, you faked me out. I was beginning to feel really self-conscious about being the only person who has answered this question. Then I saw it had new activity and got really excited! Only to find out that you made it even worse. Thanks.

;)

@Frankie How can I make it up to you?

@Frankie – Tell me more.

I hear they’re considering a range of Toy Story vibrators. The Buzz Buzz Buzz Lightyear is sure to be a best seller. “To the clitoris & beyond!” XD

Ok, I have this idea for an invention.
A butterfly type of vibrator that has a cellphone number. Actually it is a cellphone.
It can be warn (inserted) for all day use.
You call that number when you want your partner to know when you are thinking of them.

;-)

@ChazMazziest Speed dial.

Right!

Because of two different traumatic experiences as a child, I find it hard to climax most times. I always have an orgasm with a vibrator though. Sex with my husband is wonderful, but no ending fireworks. I love the intimacy of it, and the tight bond. I fall in love with him all over again, every time we make love, because of that beautiful bond. The good thing is that he is so understanding of my past and my need to climax. He helps me pick out vibrators, and other fun toys that we play with together. In my case, it’s not penetration that makes me hot, it’s just the clitoral stimulation.

You did leave something out though: the tongue. The tongue must be included if you’re talking about women and orgasms! If I’m not in the mood for vibrator play, and I want only the intimacy of being with my husband, he can actually bring me to climax with his mouth/tongue.

So when it comes to “playing” and achieving climax, for me, the finger, dildo and penis aren’t even on the list. I need my vibrator and a tongue!

How the hell did I not even think about oral?? There is something seriously wrong with me. GA @willworkforchocolate!

@Frankie Hehe. Yes, oral is a must have!

Without going into to much detail, I’m just going to say that anything my husband does to me (whether with parts of his body or toys) is much better than anything I do to myself because when he does it, I can just relax and enjoy it whereas when I’m doing it, I have to focus a bit on what I’m doing.

When it comes to choosing him or toys, I’ll choose him every time.

They’re all good in different ways. Well, I guess I could do without the “humping” and not be too upset, lol. I can’t orgasm from a penis alone. So it’s pretty much fingers and vibrators that give me an orgasm. Fingers alone make for a long solid orgasm, whereas touching myself WHILE theres a penis in me is a whole nother level. Usually, for me, those orgasms are stronger at first but fade out faster, i think usually bc i get distracted. And then a vibrator, which works fastest as all, is a more powerful orgasm but not as long. All in all, i say a vibrator is for when you’re feeling lazy, because if i just take my time and use my fingers it’s always a better orgasm. but also with a vibrator i can make myself orgasm like 3 times in 10 minutes. i could never do that with my hand, or anyone elses. dunno what it is.

but no “toy” is a substitute for the EMOTIONAL ORGASM that sex is capable of giving you ;)

I think it’s getting to be time for another cigarette.:)
Just for the record I don’t usually smoke and don’t condone it.

@Adirondackwannabe you really ought to quit that nasty habit. I hear it turns your penis green.

A person using a strap-on dildo well is always preferrable to a male-bodied person using his penis badly – that’s all I’ll say.

I wish you women would advertise this more. I’ve met quite few guys who had their prostates removed and feel inadequate because they can’t get an erection. A couple of guys in their mid-40’s think life is not worth living without it. “No woman would want me.” “I’m not a man.” I want to smack them upside the head and yell, “Use your tongue fer crissake! So you don’t squirt any more. So what? There’s no mess! Relax!”
Men. You just can’t reason with them.

@worriedguy Well, maybe this is because I’m not your ‘typical woman’ – as I don’t feel the term woman applies to me, at all. And I agree with you.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir The poor guys cry and fret over it when, in reality, it is not that important in the whole scheme of things.
I can see crying if their tongues stopped working. That’s a deal breaker!

‘Boy toy” (in case anyone needs one)
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My best orgasms are with a live partner’s erection. I had orgasms with a partner long before I was able to get my body to orgasm by myself. Orgasms by vibrators or hands feel incomplete to me and kind of sad too, I’m a body to body interactive kind of lover.

I’ll take penis for 500 @wundayatta. I just don’t see the purpose in a toy when I already have the ability to orgasm almost every time I had intercourse. And I only smoke when I’m on fire…so I don’t feel any need to light up on this one.