Why do I keep having dreams about me losing the females I've liked?

time to get nastier, chicks respond to that.

Maybe you feel like if you be too nice, she sees you as a friend and nothing else. Or she suspects your motives. It is universal to fear losing something your really want or like, and many people dream of losing those in many ways. Maybe your self-esteem is low right now and you subconsciously feel you aren’t good enough to deserve this type of relationship. It may be manifesting itself in your dreams, and you may be putting off that vibe, which results in the girl in question feeling the same. Or you may like this girl, but your subconscious feels she is not “keep-worthy” so you jettison her in your dreams. I dunno, I’m all messed up too.

@mammal Majority of females do like that these days, but it’s just not my style. If they don’t like me for who I am, then oh well. They’re not for me.

Maybe so. I do feel like I’m too nice of a person, but that’s who I am. She knows I like her, but I really don’t know how she feels about me. She liked me at one point, but a lot of things have changed. My self-esteem is indeed low, and I really don’t want a relationship right now because of my financial situation. This isn’t the first time my conscience has done this to me. Many times it’s done this to me. Like I said. I don’t know how she feels about me know. Maybe if I got an answer to that, my conscience wouldn’t be all out of whack.

You’re broke and baroque, meaning, a hopeless romanitic with a stuck reel. Get it.

Unconscious fears and anxieties about relationships and your confidence in catching and keeping a girl.

Work on your self esteem, develop more confidence in yourself and adopt an attitude that there is no such thing as ‘rejection’. If you hate Broccoli are you rejecting the Broccoli for being Broccoli or just turning it down because it it doesn’t taste good to you?