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Have you ever had so many good things happen to you all at once that it leaves you stressed and irritable?

Asked by Dutchess_III (47052points) December 2nd, 2010

Man…on Monday we bought an 05 Dodge Durango. It’s just beautiful and LOADED with everything you can imagine. The original sticker price, new, was $36,000 (Who the hell would spend that kind of money on a car??) It was at a bank, obviously a repo. Long story short, Rick managed to get the thing for $5,600!! It Blue Books for $14,500! I just love it.

Then, same day, we turn around and give our Suburban to my daughter, who has two kids and has been without a car for two years. You can imagine the stress that has been for her AND for everyone who helped when they could.

And, for the first time that I can remember in 10 years, we weren’t going to be anywhere near overdrawn as payday came up on us Friday.

So, in the blink of an eye I have the best car I’ve ever owned, and the stress of my daughter’s lack of transportation was dropped from my shoulders, and, (for a while anyway,) I had no money worries at all, for the first time in a looong time.

I just wanted to sit down and cry. I was feeling peckish all the next day, Tuesday, and Wednesday too. Feeling kind of bitchy and irritable, and I kept telling myself I was nuts! That was one of the better things that had ever happened to me! I didn’t even want to drive the Durango. It was two days before I was able to relax, and I drove it for the first time today (Thursday) (It has heated seats. Heh! I have a $5,600 butt warmer! Heh!)

I can’t quite figure out what had me feeling so…pissy up until yesterday evening. It makes no sense to me. Can you guys help me figure it out?

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AmWiser's avatar

Maybe you were experiencing happiness overload, if there is such a thing. Take a deep breath and enjoy the stress and worries that has been lifted from your shoulders.

Dutchess_III's avatar

@AmWiser I am feeling much better today. It just wasn’t logical…feeling weepy and irritable after all that. I hate things that aren’t logical!

JustJessica's avatar

In Oct. I got a settlement from an accident, and after that I found my biological father, then a couple other totally awesome things happened to me, and I was so stressed out and lost sleep because I kinda felt a lot of pressure to “do the right thing” , it took me a while to shake the feeling. Nothing like my current streak of bad luck to snap me out of it. But I am still thankful for waking up everyday.

I wish I could help you figure out what had you feeling the way you did, but I think it’s totally normal. Congrats on all your blessings though!!!

Neizvestnaya's avatar

A doctor told me 20 some years ago when I was suffering with my ulcer that there’s good stress and bad stress but my tummy thinks it’s just stress. Most of us aren’t used to having windfalls of good events and the inner voice raises alarm. Congrats on your goodies!

Cruiser's avatar

LOL!! yes!! OMG yes!! Shoot me now and get it over with!!

marinelife's avatar

Spend time saying thank you for the blessings that have come into your life.

Remember this too shall pass and bad things will happen again. So, enjoy it while you have it.

Also, good events can also be stressful.

Coloma's avatar

Yes, just enjoy!

Realize that your programming has been one of ‘struggle’ for quite awhile and now, you are reaping some of the good stuff!

Let it happen, rejoice, be thankful and, most of all, be aware that you can shift your perception to one of deserving and expectation of more good things to come.

I am coming out of the most prosperous and peaceful phase of my life to date, and while it is true that things are ever changing I can tell you from experience you do get exactly what you think you deserve!

Time to re-program those neuro-pathways for prosperity, joy and success!

Dutchess_III's avatar

I LOVE my Durango! I love, love, love it! It’s the best thing with an engine and 4 wheels that I’ve ever owned!!! It’s got a Hemi….I was passing on the highway and I said “I need to go a tad faster…” and that sucker set me back in my seat! It handles like a car, and I’m waaaay up high and I can see everything! AND I get to sleep in an extra 30 minutes every morning because I don’t have to pick my grandkids up for school!!! They’re demanding I get a DVD to put in the rear entertainment center so they can watch it during the loooong drive to school (5 blocks) I’m happy!

Aster's avatar

When this happens to me I’m not irritable from the joy of it. Why? Because I tell myself, “so things are great right now; soon they’ll be rotten so why get too excited?” and I’m always right. LOL
So I enjoy what’s going on while bracing myself for the inevitable. I love my heated seats, too!

Dutchess_III's avatar

But @Aster There are times when I feel totally contented, like everything is OK. I just go with that feeling because it’s special, and rare. This should have been one of those times but…it’s like it’s going to take a few days to sink in. It will, though. I can feel it sinking in as we speak! I think getting through my algebra final may be the final key…..

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