NSFW Does having a small penis but a strong shot matter?

Um, no. A “strong finish” does nothing for me. Extras, to me, would be making sure to adequately pleasure me. I don’t care about the size of your penis, I care about the talent of your tongue.
Based on statistics, 5ish is average, 3 or less is small. 7 or more is really pushing it (though that last bit is just for me).

@papayalily I can tie a shoe with my tongue.

@FutureMemory Well, then you and I should really get together to have drinks sometime ;)

How is less than 7 “small” if the average is 6, sometimes given as 5.5–6?

@DominicX Perhaps the OP lives in the porn world?

@papayalily is right about having the talent. If you can make your fingers, tongue and penis wiggle just right, that’s all that matters. ;)

From a woman’s perspective, male ejaculating does nothing, pleasure-wise. It doesn’t increase friction (the reason for having the bigger penis). As far as I can tell, aside from those with a large-load fetish, the whole tons-o-cum thing is more of a traditional porno aimed at men thing than anything else (maybe a bigger load wins in the metaphorical pissing contest?) Larger loads probably have a benefit for actual baby-making, but then you could just try for a baby more – so from a certain perspective, a smaller load could be a bonus. Really, if I was with a guy who couldn’t ejaculate at all, I don’t think it would really change my pleasure at all (although his ability to orgasm would still be very important).

What? Less than 7 inches isn’t even necessarily small. And all that having a “strong shot” does for me is make me have to clean my hands more often because his ejaculate is more likely to go everywhere, therefore I have to put up a shield.

Is it the size of the flaccid or the erect penis that is under discussion?

Not gonna lie, me and my boss work out at the gym in the afternoons after work, and in the shower he’s kinda like Indiana Jones down there if you know what I mean. I read that men in todays society compare themselves to men in the porn industry alot, but seeing something like that in person is a whole new topic. Another one of my friends claims his wife loves seeing haw far she can get him to go when she finishes him. Me PERSONALLY, I’m a 50/50 guy. Do unto me as I shall unto you, plus I kinda never cared how big I was, as long as I had it and it worked. Kinda makes no sense to be be large but broken.

I guess I’m what you could call an average guy. I make fun of myself because of what’s standard in the fake world. My girlfriend seems to enjoy it though. I’ve always been a giver and even if I finish before her, I do what I got to so that the “job” gets done. My girlfriend has been with quite a few women in her time and although I’m not into the whole lesbian thing like most men, one of my own personal wins was when she told me that I do oral better than any girl or guy she’s been with. I guess my point is that even though I have a small dick, my girlfriend gives me a big head… no pun intended.

Okay guys, I’ll ask. @Moegitto, what the fuck do you mean by Indiana Jones?

Well, I’ve a Johnny Weissmuller so I’m not complaining…… Lol…. ;-)

I’m guessing the “Indy guy” likes anal. Raiders of the Last Arse! It’s a theory at least.

Not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean!

@rangerr Indy’s whip = the length of a certain organ…

A “strong shot” does nothing unless the woman has a particular kink for that. (I mean, if she wants you to come on her face, a strong shot would probably be a good thing. But most girls don’t want that…)

The benefits of a long penis are overstated. The majority of sensation in a woman’s vagina is down by the opening, not up at the top. A thick penis generally makes for much more pleasure than a long penis.

I agree with the others that say a “strong shot” means nothing to the average woman. I’ve never even thought of that. I couldn’t tell you which of my partners had a “strong shot”. It might be something guys think about, but I can tell you that this woman doesn’t.

And I can honestly tell you that size doesn’t matter all that much. I’ve been with average men, I’ve been with one who was well above average, and with one who was well below. It’s not that big a deal, really. As long as the man cares about whether the woman is satisfied, size doesn’t matter.

@Seelix Indeed. The best lover I had was a bit under average. It helps that I’m a bit small myself, but even still.

Well let’s see… for me it’s not the length that matters so much as the thickness. If you were long but skinny, it wouldn’t do anything pleasureable. And a “strong shot”??? What? A massive finish does nothing to pleasure most woman, in fact I prefer my hubby to use condoms so I don’t feel the need to go take a shower and clean myself off (for that reason and I can’t take birth control).

And I’m with @papayalily about the tongue. If a man can pleasure me with his tongue and his hands/fingers, that matters so much more than penis size. The tongue is sooooooo important.

“Strong shot”, nope, I couldn’t care less.
I would actually prefer “no shot” way less mess. Although I would want him to have an orgasm.
is that possible?

@wilma Yeah, that would be nice. I hope they make a bc pill for men that does that ;)

Just have him jack off a couple of times that day. He won’t have much left.

A strong shot only matters if you are a bartender . . . or a bartender’s customer . . .

I’m a female who likes sex with males and I don’t think it (the shot) makes any impact at all.

I would hope that a penis size is not a deal breaker. LOL Penis or boob size doesn’t make a person and one should have a mind that understands that. HUGS

I like when I can feel someone ejaculating into me so I’d appreciate a ‘strong shot’. Penis size – it doesn’t really matter but I am a bit of a size queen (as someone up there, we won’t names, once called me) – I love penetration so whether you’re using your ‘real’ attached cock or strap on or fist, I like ‘em big.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir but I am a bit of a size queen (as someone up there, we won’t names, once called me)

I thought our conversations were private?

@FutureMemory I know nothing