How frequently do you PM your fellow jellies?
I’ve been browsing through old PM’s (I rarely delete), and it dawned on me how ridiculously often I use this feature. My average range is 10–20 different people per day, with upwards of 40–75 messages total. Is this normal for many of you? Are there other PM-aholics out there?
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It has varied over my Jellylife. I had one friend whom I communicated with mainly by Fluther PM in the past and others with whom I communicate with less frequently. I will shoot off the odd “high five” pm to congratulate someone on a great post or milestone now but don’t usually pm as much as formerly.
Whoa! Really? I doubt I’ve pm’d 40–75 times my entire time on Fluther.
Quite a bit. Some days I only pm instead of answering questions.
Rarely. I PM maybe 2 times a week to someone, and then that conversation might go back and forth a few PM’s. I never feel on fluther like people are into a lot of conversation one on one. Just a feeling, no specific reason why I feel that way.
I don’t PM that often, just an occasional congrats, or thank you for an answer on a question. And ditto to what @JLeslie said :-)
I pm a lot. Like @jonsblond, sometimes that’s all I do when I’m on here.
I PM the few hot babes who PM me.
Hot babes are always welcome to PM me, and will receive first class PMs in return.
I also PM a few of the gentlemen here, and we talk about the hot babes, in a gentlemanly way.
PS: All of the babes who PM me are hot.
It is rare for me. I have only PM’d a few people. (You know who you are.)
It seems so personal and a bit intrusive. I will admit, I do enjoy seeing the “Messages for you” in bold.
(I even like it more than lurve.)
If I remember correctly, @CyanoticWasp and I have PM’ed, always in a most respectful manner.
Not terribly often but if we’re pimping ourselves out here, I like seeing “messages for you” too and I think everybody on fluther is “hot”!
There are really only 2 people that I PM regularly… and I do a lot of that.
I also love to see the “Messages for You” all lit up. That’s the best.
There’s days when I’ll PM about 5 people. Then there’s days where I’ll go on a spree and PM 100–200 people.
Recently it’s just Sarcasm or rpm who gets my PM love, though.
And Auggie when I want to complain about someone.
I hardly ever send them, but I get them all the time and I try to always reply.
@Adirondackwannabe Yeah, I really should step up my game. There’s a few more open slots in the FutureMemory harem ;)
@JilltheTooth—Me too! But I think all the men of fluther are hot babes.
I pm with 2–5 people each day. I interact with some Flutherites in other ways like FB or gmail.
I PM with a few people fairly often… some just about every day. I also communicate with several people via facebook and IMs just about every day. I get a ton of PMs, mostly Fluther/mod related, but usually at least one a day from one friend or another, and I still get excited to see “messages for you”!
Think I may be missing out on something!
Not very often, but, when there is an exchange it usually results in volley of severel back & forth, then….back to obscurity. lol
Gotta send em to get em. It’s a good way to learn more about other jellys.
Only rarely. It is usually to inform someone of a good book/s. Sometimes it is too discuss a topic on a certain thread further.
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