Ok, so here’s what you need to know to be successful.
ADDICTION IS REAL!!! Yep, that sucks, but that’s the reality. The funny thing is that your brain does not let you realize that those cravings are a physiological reaction. Since it runs the show (your brain, that is) it has the power to trick you into believing any number of things, and the #1 on the hit parade goes something like “I don’t want a cigarette because I am addicted, it’s because I enjoy smoking”.
NEWSFLASH: Of course you enjoy smoking, you have become physically addicted to one of the most insidious substances on earth and your brain (like any good junkie) will tell you ANYTHING to get a fix!!!
So… once you have come to terms with the fact that the reason you have tried to quit and failed so many times before is not because you are weak or suffering from some horrific lack of character, but rather because your CPU will tell you darned near anything you want to hear in order to satisfy the craving, you stand a pretty good chance of winning the battle.
Believe it or not, the easy battle is the first one. You have probably fought it and won several times before. PUT THE DAMNED THINGS DOWN!!!! This doesn’t have to be a big show. Heck, leave a half a pack on your coffee table, because, guess what, the temptation will always be there regardless of how big a show you make of breaking the habit. Now, for the hard part of of the easy battle. DON’T PICK ANOTHER ONE UP (no matter what that junkie brain of yours tells you). Be truthful, you’ve done this part several times before, haven’t you?
The first couple of weeks SUCK. Deal with it! It gets a bit better. Now here comes the hard part. You think you are over “the addiction”, but the really insidious part is IT DOESN’T GO AWAY. The real battle is not “quitting”, but rather staying off nicotine for good. The hard battle is months, even years (yes I said years) later when you are sitting in a bar or enjoying some good times with friends and somebody lights up, and out of the blue the junkie part of your brain rises up like a zombie on crack and does everything from tell you lies like Its just one cigarette, you have already proved you can quit… to trying to convince you of something like Dang, given a choice between enjoying a cig and having wild freaky sex with a super model, the cig is looking like the best choice…
Well my friend, that is the battle you have to win. And it will come at you when you least expect it.
I have been an ex-smoker for damned near two decades, and yes, the junkie part of my brain to this day tries to rise up from the ashes (pun intended).
Here’s the bottom line: Don’t let the bastards win!... EVER!!!!!