(NSFW)How did you have your first time?

Just happened. No techique, influence etc. I was sophmore in college and she was a good friend that lived up the street. One thing lead to another… and that is the rest of the story.

It was a guy I was seeing and he did a lot of begging, and I finally had a weak moment. We were in a car – a Caddy. I was 14. It was nothing extraordinary or wonderful by any means.

It was my boyfriend at the time. We had been dating for about 6 months or so. It just kind of happened, and wouldn’t have been memorable at all except for the fact that it was in a tent. Which collapsed on us.

Great question! I have one of those stereotypical awful-but-hilarious, high school kids first-time stories, and now that I’m several years past it I can finally look back and laugh.

Alright. It was the summer before my junior year. I was a couple months shy of 16, he was 17 or 18, I can’t really remember. He was my first serious boyfriend, and the first boyfriend I actually wanted to sleep with. We’d been dating for about 3 months, and things were getting increasingly “physical” pretty much every time we saw each other. One night, we were laying in his bed playing the “just the tip” game. He was quite well-endowed and I, being 15 and a virgin, was obviously quite small, so we couldn’t get more than the tip in anyway. Well, it started feeling very, very good, and I relaxed and was enjoying it so much that I didn’t even notice that he was starting to be able to put more than the tip in…all I noticed was that it felt amazing. All of a sudden, he quickly pulled out and held his penis tightly…confused (and kind of irritated that he stopped), I asked him what he was doing. He says “I just came.” I stare at him for a second and then go “DID WE JUST HAVE SEX???!!” He looks at m and says quietly “well…yeah…” And then I started crying. I wasn’t really upset that we’d had sex, because I did want to have sex with him, but I was upset that I had just had my first time and didn’t even know it was my first time when it was happening…almost like I had been cheated or something. I got over it pretty quickly though, mainly because the boyfriend and I had an awesome sex life following that incident. And now it’s just a funny story :)

What “made me” get intimate? Gosh, that’s like asking “What made you take your first breath?” The desire to have sex is (for me) like the desire to breathe. If I don’t breathe, I die. When I no longer can have sex, I will want to die. I am SO old. I come from a generation where you didn’t have Premarital Sex. Heavens, you never hear that term anymore. When I wanted to have sex, I proposed. What a disaster that turned out to be. 44 years of virtually sexless marriage. 30 years with once or twice a year, followed by 14 years of infidelity and guilt. Finally I am able to enjoy sex with a partner who cares about me and my needs. God bless the younger generations who treat sex as something to be enjoyed. Go for it! Find your perfect partner, and THEN make them your own. Sex is the foundation a relationship is built on. No sex? No relationship.

Well for me mine was when I met my old high school friend in a club one night and after having a good time I told her I was feeling for sex and she said that she was too (because of the way we were dancing I suppose) So I took her home, had a great sexual experience…mainly because she was sexy and more experienced than I was….and that was it. When I looked back at it, Im glad I did it with her and its kind of ironic that it happened because she told me that she had always liked me in high school(which I knew) but I never liked her…and look at what happened later on.

I was unwilling.

I was just shy of turning 16 and was seduced by a good friends older brothers friend at his wedding reception.

Huge affair and us girls were drinking scads of champagne.

The house had a separate guest cottage by the pool and we ended up in there drinking and carrying on until the big moment happened. lol

It was not very memorable, more like ’ wow, so that was IT!’ lol

Opportunity knocks as they say.

The one thing that I am really proud of myself for is waiting until I was in love to have sex. It didn’t make the first time any less awkward but I can honestly say that I have never regretted it. Oh, and it was in the back of a car!!!

I had a “scratch” that needed “itching.”

A bottle of red wine and the danger of doing it on my high school’s baseball field.

That’s right.

This isn’t romantic at all but it’s the truth.

We spoke to each other online, I said my parents were not in tonight come around, he came around and we had sex.

i was unwilling like @lucillelucillelucille

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I was 19 and I can say it was very embarrassing. My friend kept begging and begging and I gave in don’t know why.
He was like “it was amazing!”
All I could think about was how was it amazing? It hurt like hell and I had no physical or emotional connection.

On my wedding night.

I was about 13 and he was 17, there was some malt liquor involved, I didn’t really consent but I didn’t put up much of a fight at that point either. He wasn’t even detoured by the fact I was menstruating…. What a creep, I’d like to see him now and slap him, and spit in his face. So My first time sucked!

He was my husband and I believe you know how.

@JustJessica He is a horrible monster…and I’m sorry that had happened to you.

@Eggie I’m a firm believer in karma so I’m sure he’s getting back when he did to me ten fold! It has only made me a stronger person.