You can’t have answers if there are no questions. Questioners won’t bother to ask questions if there are no answerers. Well, perhaps they might ask those huge philosophical questions that are unanswerable, but the practical ones would be a waste of time.
I see asking questions as a service to the community. People don’t want to be bored. They much prefer to be challenged. People, I believe, want to think about interesting things.
Questions are what direct people to learn more. Often, an answerer must research the answer, and in the process of that research, the answerer will probably learn much more than just the answer to the question.
There are other kinds of questions that ask for opinion more than for information. I think those are the most interesting kind of questions. They ask people to make choices; sometimes very difficult choices. There are also questions that ask people for data—personal data. It’s different than advice. It’s asking for people’s experience with an issue.
These are the kinds of questions I like to ask. I’m not really interested in anyone telling me what I should do. I will make my own choices. But I am interested in other people’s experience and in why they made the choices they did.
I think questions are crucial and that they are much more than entertainment. They are teachers. They are guides. They give this place meaning. They give most places meaning, but that’s not the point.
I think that most people will admit that there are a lot of bad questions here. Some are insipid and poorly thought out, and it is not at all clear what the questioner is after.
I have a preference for the kinds of questions I want to see. I figure that the best way to get questions I want to see is to model them. I’m not saying my questions have any more value than any other questions. I’m just saying that, for my own stimulation, I want questions like the kind I write.
I feel that I have seen a change in the way people ask questions over the time I have been writing my models. I could be deluded, but that’s what I think. I feel like when I left, questions started to grow more insipid, and that that has changed since I’ve been back. That’s just my opinion, and I’m sure many would disagree, but I’m only here for what I’m here for, and I’ll do whatever I can to make this place more interesting to me.
I don’t think I’m being totally selfish, because I think others also like the kind of questions I write and they appreciate the impact that they perceive I have on this place. We could all be deluded, of course.
The point of all this is to say that I do make up questions in order to serve the community. I do think it is a service, and I think it helps make this place something more pleasing to other people besides me. Whether or not it does that in anyone else’s opinion, it works for me. I hope it works for others, too. If it does work for others, it’s more likely that I’ll get what I want, too.
I think that the answerers are customers, too. They hunger for good questions. They get tired of saying the same thing over and over. It gets boring. Providing good questions helps keep good folks interested, and it keeps them here, and it improves the overall quality of the place.
Now I don’t just make up questions to make them up. They are always something I am interested in. But I do sometimes look around for issues that I think might be interesting, and then I ask about something that interests me as far as that issue is concerned. I don’t think I could make up a question that I didn’t care about. Why would I bother? Hmmm. There’s a question.
I say all this because I think questions are very valuable here, and because of that, I try to provide good questions for people to bite into. Mostly they don’t seem to work, but every once in a while I get a hit. I do all this without being concerned about lurve. I’d write questions if there were no lurve. Answers, too. I enjoy asking and answering. I enjoy being of service to others. It gives me a little bit of a high when people tell me my answer made a difference or that they really like my questions.
I would be happy if the entire lurve system went away. I don’t really like it at all because it does rank people and because I am competitive, it makes me do things I wouldn’t otherwise do—like answer questions I don’t care about. Without lurve, I would be much happier.
But most other people seem to like or need some kind of points system. They seem to answer for the lurve instead of just because it is rewarding in and of itself. I understand that, but I wish it weren’t like that. Like I say, I’ve been sucked into the game and I don’t like myself when that happens. You might say that I could just ignore it, and perhaps I could. But the effort it would require to ignore it is greater than the effort required to play it, so what’s the point?
Now the process of writing this has made a question occur to me, so I’m going to go off and write it instead of writing about some of the things lurve has inspired me to do.