Ah, @Hypocrisy_Central, this is something we agree on. I have always wondered this myself. People love to call out tobacco smokers and say they are awful people who are ruining everything and killing everybody. I am quite sick of hearing “Well, second-hand smoke harms other people.” And yet, a drunk driver will kill you faster than any second-hand smoke. Someone who drink 20 beers a day is an alcoholic. Someone who smokes 20 cigarettes a day may just be a normal American. A heavy smoker doesn’t destroy his/her family but a heavy drinker can destroy his/her family. Nobody says, “Alcohol will kill you if you drink too much,” which it will, but everyone calls out the smokers for the murderers they are.
I find it quite interesting that people think that someone drinking alcohol doesn’t affect anyone around them. I beg to differ. When I lived in a college dorm, I couldn’t sleep on the weekends for all the loud, drunken people on campus. More than once, I had to look after a friend of mine who was so drunk that he/she might pass out in the street. I had to guide drunk friends home. I had to stop them from saying the kinds of things to people twice their size that they normally would not say. I guess I could have just let them pass out in the gutter or let them taunt the 250 pound hockey player but, quite frankly, I wasn’t too keen on having a friend end up in the hospital or jail if they were underage which, often, they were.
When someone gets alcohol poisoning, man, it really sucks. They didn’t know their limits. Poor them. If someone gets cancer after years and years of smoking, well, they had it coming and they deserve no sympathy or help. It’s okay to not want to be with someone because they smoke but it’s not okay to not want to be with someone because they drink.
You want to know why all this is? It’s because everyone drinks. Everyone is expected to drink. If you tell someone that you don’t drink, often, people try to get you to drink. People try to get you to drink more. If you tell someone you don’t smoke, everyone’s happy and not a single smoker will get you to smoke tobacco, anyway.
Edit to add: I knew that in posting this, a lot of people would attack me and be angry with me. I am prepared for that. I would ask that when responding to my post, you keep the insults to a minimum and try to present your argument in a cogent, respectful way.