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lov3xDrnk's avatar

Could you please help me get this guy?

Asked by lov3xDrnk (239points) February 9th, 2011

I like this guy, like, REALLY like him, and I really want him to like me. I like him because he’s deeper than other guys, he’s an indie musician and artist. We have a ton in common but he doesn’t know. :( Recently I found out he has sights set on a girl but I know it’s not me because of the details he gave. I would like nothing more to at least develop a friendship with him. Any ideas?

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DrBill's avatar

TELL HIM!

He may have feelings for you and also be reluctant to tell you.

I once had feelings for someone and lost them because they never knew, Don’t pass up the chance because you may regret it in the future

kheredia's avatar

Who did he give these details to? So you don’t even talk to the guy? Is he in one of your classes? What type of relationship do you have with him now?

Pattijo's avatar

Talk to him , or he’ll never know how you feel . You might be surprised .
Good Luck

lov3xDrnk's avatar

@DrBill, the thing is, I’m really shy, but not at all when you get to know me. I’m not the type of person that goes up and starts flirting, more of the admirer from afar type. @kheredia, his friend, It was on Facebook. He’s in quite a few of my classes. I have a just classmates sort of relationship with him now.

kheredia's avatar

Oh, I see. Well I suggest you start building a friendship with him. You don’t necessarily need to flirt with him right away. Just casually say hello and smile and make him feel welcomed by you. Who knows, maybe he’ll start talking to you! The truth is, you have no chance if you don’t even talk to him. Then after you make yourself known you can try friending him on facebook. For some people it’s just easier to communicate through a computer :-)

kheredia's avatar

My fiance and I met online by the way :-p

TexasDude's avatar

You don’t have to be a direct flirt to get his attention. Work what you have. If he’s artsy and musical, he’s likely into the same in girls, and you look to be the type, so play up any loveable hipster characteristics you may have once you take the plunge and talk to him. Be subtle, yet confident, if that makes any sense. And remember… history favors the bold.

jellyfish3232's avatar

Speaking as a fellow 13 year old, forget it. Do not let emotions get in the way of logic. Teen relationships have an extremely small percentage of success, I wouldn’t even bother. Tough it out. You can’t let your life be controlled by love and devotion for an individual human. Logic will get you far in life.

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