The term “Reparative Therapy” is also used because they are operating on the (false) assumption that gays have an incomplete bond with the same -sex parent and incomplete role modeling. The so-called therapy is designed to (supposedly) repair this deficit, thus the term Reparitive.
It’s kind of a weird offshoot of the old weak or absent father/controlling Mother theory from the Freudian way of thinking from the turn of the century. This has long since been discredited by standard Psychology based on subsequent studies.
But Reparative therapy still operates from this outmoded perspective. Somehow they manage to overlook all the gay folks who grew up with a terrific and healthy relationship with both parents and still came out gay.
The other part of the “repair” focuses on stereotypical behavior stuff. Guys are told to get involved with sports and other “macho” activities and avoid things like the arts, dance, fashion and design, etc.
They are told to study and mimic the mannerisms of straight men in how they talk, walk, sit, etc. As if that’s going to change anything on the inside. All this nonsense based on stereotypes.
I vividly remember one kid whose Father was determined to eliminate all traces of possible gayness in his son. This wasn’t part of any therapy as the kid was only 8 yrs. old, for crying out loud.
He was an Army Sergeant (a drill instructor yet) and I could always tell when he’d been really badgering the kid over the weekend.
“Johnny” had a way of talking vividly with a lot of hand gestures and “running like a girl” (according to the Father).
So after a weekend of being drilled in “manly” behavior, the poor kid would be standing awkwardly around the playground, hesitant to run around like he usually did and jamming both hands deep into his pockets to avoid any untoward mannerisms and looking totally miserable.
Fortunately it didn’t last more than a day or so till he was happily going around just being his happy little self, hand gestures and all.
I can only suppose this Father had never met any Ittalians like my BIL who talks with his hands all the time. And he’s a totally macho type.
This particular Father was just doing this more or less instinctively (based upon stereotypical assumptions).
But it’s appalling to realize that there are supposedly intelligent and better educated “Reparative therapists” advocating the exact same stupidity to “cure” gay patients.