What attracts you most in girls/boys? (not physically)

Confidence and the ability to make me laugh. Of course there are other things, but those two top the list for me.

Intelligence, humor, kindness

Yet again @janbb, GET OUTTA MY HEAD! I swear you’re my long lost twin sometimes. That’s exactly what I would have said.

@tedibear Sorry – it’s such a pleasant place to inhabit.

@janbb said it all. I love a man with a twinkle in his eye.

Humor. Open minded. Optimistic. Intelligent.

And I know you said not physical but… mustache… hot ;D

can start a conversation easily, very funny. stands out from everbody else.

I like moral lassitude in girls.

Kindness, confidence and the sound of the voice.

hmmm, the first thing i notice is a guy’s smile. then maybe his voice.Given some time I’d look for kindness,generosity and his SENSE OF HUMOUR. very important to me as i love anyone who makes me laugh.

Perceptiveness, creativity, wit, independence of thought, sharp mind, common sense, nonlinearality

Confidence instead of arrogance.
Quieter rather than louder.
Attention to detail and memory for things shared.
Consideration of others, a bit of gallantry even to protect others.

Spontaneity.

The way they love they’re parents and respect towards others , personality , positive attitude , hobbies and the type of people they hang around.

+ up good question

A nerd with confidence and humor.
Love a man that knows what he’s doing.
And extra points if he’s a pro on improving homes and pluming.
Doesn’t have to be rich…just smart.

A smart, athletic boy with an awesome sense of humor and a six pack. A.K.A., Taylor Lautner.