@Jenniehowell I competely get what you are saying, amd am similarly compelled to show where the other person is a nonthinking, uninformed, idiot. I actually don’t start from the place of idiot, I don’t think people who disagree with me are idiots, simpy for disagreeing; I get to idiot when they are unwilling to hear new information, to consider another point of view.
I think it depends on the person, it is more complicated than simply they don’t have all the facts. If it is a friend or family member who needs to believe what they believe, and seems unreceptive to outside information, your constantly being contrary will be seen as “know it all” and they won’t like being around you, because those people don’t like debate, they like to be surrounded by those who agree with them. Those people there is no poin tin stating your facts, they are closed off, they don’t want to listen to you. They are giving you the signal they cannot listen, but you persist.
There are many people who are on tne opposite end of the political and religious spectrum of me, or know less than me about certain topics who do want to debate and hear and learn new information, fluther is exactly that, but there are many people out there who don’t want to learn something new, or are incapable for one reason or another.
I say it has to do with cognitive dissonance. They have a construct of the world, their world, with a fear that one change will bring down all the walls, causing the sky to fall. Especially regarding religion and poltics this is true in my opinion. I have heard religious Christians say, “if one thing in the bible is wrong, then the whole thing is wrong.” So they must believe everything is exactly right and perfect in that book, no thinking allowed. And, for some of tose people that way of thought spreads into all areas of their life. Probabaly the very religious in all religions are similar to this. And, or course their are non religious people who have concrete thinking as well, but it does seem to me, could be wrong, religious people are more inclined.