Should i move on?

Breakups suck no matter what. All those feelings you have for him mean nothing to him. I guess, like, I’ve learned that there’s nothing anyone else can do for you to help you. You just have to get over it all by yourself, and it’ll hurt. Bad.

i know how you feel. I am going through the same thing.. I guess it takes awhile to get emotionally uninvested before being able to let go and reasonably invest in a new person. I guess if you are asking the question you already know the answer.

It can take a long time to get over someone you’ve loved, but in the long run it’s always best to prepare yourself to live without that person. Especially if they don’t share your feelings. It will make you stronger and show a new side of yourself that you may not have seen otherwise. The best and worst part of relationships is what we learn about ourselves when they are over.

It has only been two weeks though, so give it time and have some faith in your ability to heal. Stop and think of what your really losing or what your pain means. Are you really losing the catch of the century, or is it something you’ve just gotten used to and are afraid to face life alone for a bit? The answers will come to you in time. I believe that.

@breefield:
thanks i know..but like he was my first love..like he says he still loves me but he doesnt want to get back with me becuase what me and him ever did was fight and ague…ive tried getting over him but i couldnt becuase he would jsut keep getting back in my life and make me love him all over agian

@ebenezer:
welps i already like some other people..im not sure if its like i want to get back at him for liking another girl or i really like that guy..like i want to move on but then again i always tend to draw back to him

I have been I an on off relationship withmy girlfriend (sorry) ex for the last five years and though we love each other it has taken a lot out of us. I dont recommend doing the on off thing. I think in some ways it was because we are afraid we won’t find someone better and are afraid of being “alone”. But I think I have learned that this type of relationship just keeps you in an cycle of confusion and uncertainty.

@ebenezer:
me and my ex have tried the on n off for the past 2 years..we’ve broken up over hundreds of times..like i dont know..he was my first love and first everything..like i really dont know..i love him alot and really dont want to let go

I know…

@ebenezer:
ya..
but one thing is that once i try to move he’ll eventually get back into my life..he’ll text me and talk to me and itll just make me fall in love with him all over again and just love him even more..or he’ll say he wants to get back together but we end up not..and then this thing will start all over again =[

i guess you should keep your eyes peeled for guy 2.

@ebenezer:
i have..and if you read the question i asked after this youd know the problem..

The real question you should ask yourself right now is What do I want?How you lead your life is really up to you. We can only give you advices or experience but the decision is yours. Going through a break up especially when the ex was the big love of your life is long and painful and somehow you never really get over him. But I can assure the time heals. the