@DancingMind Ok, well I just want to say that in the UK, me and 99% of the people I’ve met love talking about our origins.
I’d have asked you the same thing, and when you’d said you were a little German, I’d have asked if you’ve ever visited. If you’d said no, I’d have said aaaah, and told you all the things about Germany that I love, and why you should definitely go! We would be having a conversation about all things German, not “DancingMind the German”
So would you have been offended if I’d asked? Or were you offended because you met a shallow, judgemental person?
See, for me, I love travel, and I like to hear about and talk about different places and cultures, so it’s just something I’m interested in.
If I asked someone who looked South Asian where they were from, and they said “England”, and I asked where their family originated from, and they said “does it matter?” I would say “of course not” (thinking “not any more than anything else we’d be talking about for at least half an hour, let’s talk about something that matters then, like the weather or the pop charts…eh?”) and then I would be offended, by them implying I am racist, just because I asked about their family history.
To me, that is as rude as someone replying to my question, “What do you study”, with “Why do you care?”
Obviously, I know there are reasons behind it, but I think theyre unjustified, and anyone who immediately implies I am a racist, just because I asked where their family originated from, is most definitely the one at fault, with regards to being shallow and judgemental.