(NSFW)What makes a man/woman a good kisser?

Lol…..I had a girlfriend one time that when she “kissed” me….I got the distinct impression she was trying to eat my head….So if they don’t do that, I consider them a good kisser…lol

Good kissing is all about compatibility – some people like to have their whole faced consumed (smile). I’m not one of them, but I know that if I find someone who matches me, move for move, intensity for intensity and knows when a kiss should just be about the kiss… well, that’s nirvana!

How is this not safe for work?

When I found a woman that I truly loved when I kissed her it was life changing. She made a comment to me that she had never been kissed like that and that she loved it when I kissed her. I have never before or since had that kind of experience.

@erichw1504 I assumed it might lean towards sexual themes and decided to play it safe. @coffeenut, my first girlfriend just opened her mouth gaping wide when I tried kissing her. It was like what I imagine a man dying of thirst might do to a hole in a cactus, trying to lick out the last drops of moisture to sustain his life one more day.

I believe that kisses fall into one of three categories:

1. A light peck is just a friendly greeting.

2. A medium kiss passes on deep-felt passion that one person feels for another. This kiss can have a strange effect on both parties. If both engines fire up, who knows what is to follow.

3. This is a “lets get it on” kiss. Both parties are on the same wavelength and someone open the bedroom door….we are on our way.

Simple, but effective.

Fresh breath otherwise fugettaboudit!

By how far down they can stick their tongue down my throat.

Lips like a suction cup,breath like a freight train. ;)

A great kiss is all about chemistry. When you kiss someone and the “sparks fly” it enters the “great kiss” category. I remember the first time I kissed my now husband…it was so electric, I knew I had to have more. Best. Kiss. Ever.

@coffeenut…I dated a guy that was like kissing a resuscitation Annie doll. We worked on it and it got better, but I have never gotten that image out of my head!

One must have lips like silk & be able to use their tongue like a turbo charged piston from a steam train….whoo hooo!!

I think a man who is gentle, and not have slobbery camel lips is good.

Soft and sensual, barely touching lips.
They should make you desire another, and then another.
Each building on each one.
Eventually a gentle tip of tongue coaxing the other for hours of kissing.

Good answer blueiiznh. If you give it all away, all at once, there is no mystery.

I gather that some girls like it touchy, but more like a buzzy bee, gently flirting with a rose, before softly landing on the petals. Others like it like a warm, freshly baked chocolate chip cookie, and want to be ‘eaten’, and enjoyed, all at once.

I like girls who massage my tongue like they are sucking something else. That turns me on like the world is on fire.

@abaraxadac you mean like sucking a golf ball through a garden hose?

No, actually, not really. Just massaging my tongue with theirs, not trying to tongue wrestle me or anything, it is not a contest to see who gets to put their tongue in the other persons mouth more and for longer. If we are sword fighting, let me win. Make it like sex, where I am invading the chick’s body with my tongue and it is warm, sensuous, and delicious. Make like a feminine masterpiece of engineering, and turn me on with what you do to my tongue with your lips, while I take over your mouth and mind with my own. That kind of thing.