{nsfw} If you've had phone sex, what tips would you give someone who wanted to engage in same?

Don’t be inhibited. Enjoy the experience and be creative. It might translate into some interesting opportunities to try out new ideas when you are back together.

The best phone sex usually envolves role-play. Find out what fantasys they would like to act out.

don’t do it wile driving

talk in a really quiet voice. Describe what your’e wearing under your clothes, and what your’e doing to yourself. (you could really be cooking dinner or doing your taxes) tee hee it’s easy!

@trailsillustrated Like:
“Hey baby. The Simpson’s is on. And Marge is looking hot!”

Both of you pretend you called a wrong number.

Don’t waste your time kissing and snuggling with the phone. I tried that. It doesn’t do a thing for the phone. Just dive right in.

Make sure you’ve dialed the right number and you’ve reached the right person. : )

Make sure the person you are “conversing” with is completely alone and 100% comitted to talking to you in this manner (it can be fun, but also a little bit intimidating)

Make sure your partner is assured that you are alone, not recording him/her and are really interested in doing this as a form of mutual passion (and not just for fun or a kinky kick)

Be aware, that at the moment of greatest passion, one or both parties may need to put down the phone, so discuss that ahead of time so that no one thinks that the other person has hung up, died, or gone to the bathroom to laugh or engage in more “immediate” relations.

I have no direct experience with skype, but that may be a better way to go, as long as both parties are assured that no one is taping the encounter. Most women are now afraid of the “Charlie Sheen” effect.

Never pay for it when there are plenty of opportunities to do it for free & the role play thing is the most fun.

I have had phone sex with my boyfriend many times but it isn’t ever planned. It just happens (usually after I have mentioned a sexy dream I had about him recently which happens quite a lot) and it’s usually when we have been apart for a long time. I say, don’t plan it, just go with the mood. It’s even better if you have a webcam!

I put on my robe and wizard hat…

It’s best to wait until a couple are engaged!

Should you plan ahead or surprise your other half?