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How much money should I give my brother for his belated birthday?

Asked by Palindrome (1084points) March 18th, 2011

So I didn’t really get anything for my brother’s 20th birthday. I mean I feel bad because I know it’s the thought that counts. I didn’t illustrate my birthday wishes to him except for a happy b-day message on facebook. I’m not working so I don’t have money coming into my pocket. I have money left over from my birthday ($40) and that’s all I have. I thought he would kind of forget, but he just brought up the fact that I didn’t get him anything for his birthday. He’s working and has a job. His birthday was March 7th. Do I give him the $40 dollars that I have? Or should I just give him a happy belated card? Or both? Or any other suggestions?

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chyna's avatar

My suggestion is you don’t have any money, give him a card with a lottery ticket.

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cak's avatar

I second @chyna‘s idea.

Let’s face it, times are a bit tough. Right him a silly note, tell him the most memorable moments with him. Make it a little more personal. Maybe that will help, too.

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Pandora's avatar

Ask him for a loan and then give him that money in the card. :P

Pandora (32398points)“Great Answer” (2points) Flag as…
cak's avatar

@Pandora I’m almost certain my sister borrowed money from me, many years ago, to buy my birthday present!

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john65pennington's avatar

His birthday is March 7th? Today is March 18th.

Your are a little late.

Split the difference and give him a dollar for each year of his birth or $20.00 and a belated birthday card.

He will love it and accept it, because it came from his sister.

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SpatzieLover's avatar

I’d say he deserves a $20 for his 20th. No need to buy a card…make a silly one or make a belated b-day treat for him.

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janbb's avatar

I think 29 would be right.

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zendielacson's avatar

i think it’s not important on how much money you gave him but in simple effort making a personalized birthday card it would be more appreciated.

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