Where do you draw the line on a family member using your personal bathroom toiletry items?

They should definitely be tossed. Personal is personal and should only be used by you.

I would just give him what he used. IMO the subject of him not having these items should have come up the first day he was there and a quick run to the store should have been made. BTW…thanks for not sharing how you discovered the toothbrush was used!! X(

Cruiser, you caught that, good.

No one touches my little mermaid bubble bath, you hear me? No one!!
Having just read your details, I have but two things to add. He wore your underwear? Woah…skidmark alert!! Anyone ever used my toothbrush & they’d be picking those tootie pegs up off the floor….ain’t that the tooth, sorry truth!

I wouldn’t care about deodorant but toothbrush? really? Even the razor….come on. Who does that.

I would throw those things out.
Wearing your underwear too?? XD

Toothbrush? Really out of line.
Razor? You can change the blade, can’t you?
Deoderant? Yuck!

The fact that he would do these things without even asking is really gross.

I would not think twice about tossing them. I hope you figured out he used your toothbrush before you used it again. The deodorant… I would still toss it, but, hopefully since he had just showered, he was clean when he used it.

Ewww! What gall to use your things without saying anything! As if he couldn’t take a quick trip to Target or something! Eww! Ewww!

I’d ask if he was raised in a barn, but barnyard animals actually have more decorum.

I would confront the guy and give him all the stuff he used. He had to explain the situation to you first and say that he had forgotten his own toiletries and asked if he could use yours or if you had stuff to spare. I would definitely make sure I point out to him how inappropriate that was so that maybe in the future he doesn’t do it to someone else.

No one but me and my SO uses my toiletry items.
#1 They’re expensive
#2 Gross

Then again, I don’t allow overnight guests, and my SO agrees so I doubt that will ever be a problem.

That’s disgusting. I’d throw it all away and go to Walmart. Yuck.

Ugh. Someone using my hairbrush wouldn’t bother me (someone I know to be liceless, that is), because it’s easily cleaned. I wouldn’t even bother to clean it, really.

Nail file, okay.

Other than that, get your own. There’s even a dollar store downstairs.

And that goes for everyone. Even Mr. Fiance. No one is sticking my toothbrush in their mouth. I don’t care if I stick my tongue in there, but not my toothbrush.

I would draw the line at toothbrush and razor. Most other things would be fair game for anyone else in my household but a visitor? Taking your underwear too? No way. Never mind tossing the things he used at him. I’d toss his ass out on the street first. Cheeky sod!

There are no cons to tossing @john65pennington. Sheesh! The nerve. Toss it and go buy new.

I’m sorry this happened to you while you’re grieving. Did he come in for the funeral? Or just to be a complete pest/mooch?

what he should have done is gone to a local drug store or supermarket or big store like Walmart and picked up those things. He should have gone without brushing his teeth, or asked you if you had another one to give him. I have stayed places and not brushed my teeth for half a day until I got a toothbrush from a store or somewhere – it’s not pleasant, but I would never use someone else’s toothbrush – that’s just gross. As far as those items go, for you, I would throw them all out.

I don’t share toothbrushes.
Sharing razors can give you a skin infection as can deodorant/antiperspirant roll ons.

Get yourself some new gear and ask that he not use them, that you are very fussy about your personal hygeine items. It’s too bad if he thinks that’s weird or tries to argue some stupid article about germs… make him agree to respect your wishes. Gah.