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Do you have any poems that might help to give a very dear friend some courage and strength at a difficult time?

Asked by Bellatrix (21317points) April 7th, 2011

I have a very dear friend who is seriously ill at the moment and is going in for surgery in a week or so and is anxious and scared. I would like to send her a poem or something like that to give her a bit of a lift and I wondered if any of you have any favourites I could pick from. Any ideas gratefully received. She isn’t a close friend but she is a special, special person. One of those wonderful, warm, kind people who make the world a better place.

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ddude1116's avatar

“Invictus” by William Ernest Henley, that’s a possibility

woodcutter's avatar

I’m really lame with things like this. So I would plagiarize what I could find on a card at a store. There are always a couple jems in all those cards.

ariah's avatar

C. Bronte’s Life

Bellatrix's avatar

:-) Woodcutter… or I can pick all your brains. I just know there are a number of people here who love poems and writing generally. The piece doesn’t have to be a poem. I know when I have been troubled, I find reading certain works really helps me feel better.

Coloma's avatar

Rumi is lovely.
He was a 13th century mystic. Very nice works of wisdom and comfort.

Paradox1's avatar

The Quitter – by Robert W. Service

When you’re lost in the Wild, and you’re scared as a child,
And Death looks you bang in the eye,
And you’re sore as a boil, it’s according to Hoyle
To cock your revolver and . . . die.
But the Code of a Man says: “Fight all you can,”
And self-dissolution is barred.
In hunger and woe, oh, it’s easy to blow . . .
It’s the hell-served-for-breakfast that’s hard.

“You’re sick of the game!” Well, now that’s a shame.
You’re young and you’re brave and you’re bright.
“You’ve had a raw deal!” I know — but don’t squeal,
Buck up, do your damnedest, and fight.
It’s the plugging away that will win you the day,
So don’t be a piker, old pard!
Just draw on your grit, it’s so easy to quit.
It’s the keeping-your chin-up that’s hard.

It’s easy to cry that you’re beaten — and die;
It’s easy to crawfish and crawl;
But to fight and to fight when hope’s out of sight —
Why that’s the best game of them all!
And though you come out of each gruelling bout,
All broken and battered and scarred,
Just have one more try — it’s dead easy to die,
It’s the keeping-on-living that’s hard.

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

Here is a poem by Edna St. Vincent-Millay called “Never May the Fruit by Plucked”. It has a lot of euphony.

Never, never may the fruit be plucked from the bough
And gathered into barrels.
He that would eat of love must eat it where it hangs.
Though the branches bend like reeds,
Though the ripe fruit splash in the grass or wrinkle on the tree,
He that would eat of love may bear away with him
Only what his belly can hold,
Nothing in the apron,
Nothing in the pockets.
Never, never may the fruit be gathered from the bough
And harvested in barrels.
The winter of love is a cellar of empty bins,
In an orchard soft with rot.

Earthgirl's avatar

I think this poem has a beautiful thought to it. You say she is kind and the world needs such people. It’s not always easy to be kind and this poem reminds us of that.

Kindness
Before you know what kindness really is
you must lose things,
feel the future dissolve in a moment
like salt in a weakened broth.
What you held in your hand,
what you counted and carefully saved,
all this must go so you know
how desolate the landscape can be
between the regions of kindness.
How you ride and ride
thinking the bus will never stop,
the passengers eating maize and chicken
will stare out the window forever.

Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,
you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho
lies dead by the side of the road.
You must see how this could be you,
how he too was someone
who journeyed through the night with plans
and the simple breath that kept him alive.

Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,
you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.
You must wake up with sorrow.
You must speak to it till your voice
catches the thread of all sorrows
and you see the size of the cloth.

Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,
only kindness that ties your shoes
and sends you out into the day to mail letters and
purchase bread,
only kindness that raises its head
from the crowd of the world to say
it is I you have been looking for,
and then goes with you everywhere
like a shadow or a friend.

Naomi Shihab Nye

Bellatrix's avatar

Thank you so much everyone for the poems. I think she will love them all. And I knew you would have something beautiful to share @Earthgirl.

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