(1)Wine with great food- you’re so right, it tastes best in moderation. Wine is pleasing to all the senses- obviously taste and smell are the first things we think of. But there’s also the mouthfeel; wine can feel smooth, watery, thick, or lingering, for example, and a nice chill on a glass of white wine really complements the whole experience. And then wine is colorful and pleasing to look at, and you’ve got the pop of the cork and the clink of the glasses. Pairing wine with a bit of complementary food can actually seem to change the taste of both. If you have a red wine that tastes bitter or acidic on its own, then you have it with a nice grilled steak, you’ll start to notice flavors opening up that didn’t seem to be there before. The tannins in the wine will keep the fattiness of the steak from overwhelming you.
Listening to music. In my mind, music and the sight/feel of what’s going on around me are paired in kind of the same way as food and wine. Certain songs and types of music just naturally go with times of day, times of the year, rain or sun, etc.
(2) Reading, writing, or painting. At work, planning and implementing new ideas, such as marketing campaigns or training.
(3) Exercising. If I had my way, I’d just sit around drinking wine and listening to music all day and I’d be about 500 pounds. Whenever I do anything even remotely active (like a walk around the block or a bike ride) I feel like, “Damn! I did something!” all out of proportion to what I’ve actually done. I went on a 20-mile bike ride last year and I had to keep stopping once a mile all during the last stretch. My boyfriend was pretty much biking circles around me. To me, that’s like freaking climbing Mt. Everest.
Volunteering, especially with the elderly, and doing things to help my elderly relatives. One thing that really bothers me about American culture is that we tend to keep the elderly out of sight and out of mind. My grandmother frustrates me sometimes, but she’s lived a really amazing life- she grew up in India, climbed in the Himalayas, traveled by boat up the Red Sea and to Turkey and Greece, and road tripped from D.C. to Alaska. Nowadays she has trouble walking around and caring for herself.
This was a great question; I never thought of categorizing ideas into different types of enjoyment, but it completely makes sense.