Me and my best friend have a friend who is exactly like the person you described. Unfortunately our friend is not much of a reader and doesn’t pay much attention to the news, so I don’t think she (or a lot of people in the U.S.) truly know what healthy food is. Even though the information is clearly out there. But people that don’t have an inkling about that knowledge in the first place, will never seek it out. It’s not on their radar.
It’s kind of like me and sports. I know it exists, but I know nothing about it, it doesn’t interest me and I don’t seek out information about it.
Our friend is pre-diabetic, has a thyroid condition, rosacea, and is overweight. Me and my best friend are vegetarians and we take a lot of interest in our health and well being and what kinds of food we put into our bodies. Whenever we all dine out together, our other friend will not set foot in a vegetarian restaurant, because the food sounds so awful and scary to her. She would be happy to eat chicken fingers (or the equivalent) every single day of her life. Subsequently, we usually eat at random restaurants, as long as they have one thing that us vegetarians can eat.
Me and my best friend enjoy talking about food and going to exotic restaurants and trying new, but healthy things, so when all of us are together, the conversation often turns to food and nutrition. But most of our “chatter” falls on deaf ears. It’s not like our friend is purposely ignoring what we have to say, it’s just that she has zero knowledge about the subject of how poor eating habits can contribute to health problems. There’s a dis-connect.
We don’t want to be mean to her or beat her over the head with our knowledge, but we will often try to throw in simple tidbits of information and hope that our friend will remember it and take it to heart. So far, this approach has not worked.
Sometimes it makes me mad, because I love and care about her. But you can’t force information down people’s throats and I always remember myself and the sports reference. Sports just doesn’t compute for me, so when I hear people talking about it, they may as well be speaking in a foreign language. It just goes right over my head. I’m afraid that’s the same way for my friend (and maybe yours) with regards to nutrition information.
Your best bet might be to tell her that you just got back from your annual physical (whether you did or not) and ask her when was the last time she had one. If she can’t remember, then gently prod her to set up an appointment and then throw in some tidbits about how your doctors said this or that and your doctor suggested seeing a nutritionist and somehow attempt to relate it to her conditions. And ask her if she wants you to go with her. You can also draw up a list of questions (on paper) that you can give to her to ask her doctor. Tell her that you used this list (during your exam) so that you could get the answers and not forget what to ask the doctor. Tell her the list made it so much more convenient.
Some potential questions:
What tests will you be giving me?
After the tests come back, should I make another appt to see you, or will you contact me?
I have some close relatives that have (fill in the blank for their conditions) should I be concerned that I might have those conditions too?
I am currently taking X,Y and Z for this condition, should I continue this routine, or do I need to change some of my meds?
Am I the correct weight for my height? If not, what activities or changes in diet should I make?
Are there any foods that I should avoid to help keep my (fill in the blank condition) at bay?
Are there any foods or supplements that I should add into my diet to maintain my health?
Can you set up an appointment for me to see a nutritionist?
What kinds of exercises should someone my age be doing? And how often do I need to do those exercises?
I have some pain (name the places). What can you recommend for that?
Do I need to have a stress test or any other kind of test to check my heart health?
Will you be checking me for diabetes?
Will you be doing any kind of cancer screening?
Do I need any kind of gynecological tests? Or a breast examination?