@YoBob My point was that there is not equality everywhere. That’s all. Yes, there are scholarships and the like for subgroups, and there are people in minority cultures in high paying jobs, and oppressed majority people. However, this is not the majority of the situations, and there are still problems. Even with schoarships college enrollments (across the board, not just one institution) are lower for minorities then their population percentage in the country. Minorities and women are woefully underrepresented in higher-level jobs. Not absent! Not by a long shot. But not properly represented.
As to the rest, again all I was saying is there are still problems to be fixed. You implied that everything was even for everyone regardless of race, creed, or gender. I was pointing out that, at least in many aspects, that is not true. I extended that to sexuality, but same difference. Yes, people are people. But many rights and privleges are still being denied to people based on race, creed, gender, sexuality, etc. You are good to people, and that’s great. But it doesn’t mean everything everywhere is peachy. you brought up other subgroups, so I responded as such.
@sinscriven Apologies as well, i can come off a little strong sometimes. As @Simone_De_Beauvoir has said, they are different (connected, but different) problems. Verbal abuse (a la running your mouth) is different then filing a criminal suit. And falsely calling rape, like any false accusation, is horrible. And admittedly worse for rape then, say, theft, but that’s a whole ‘nother conversation for another day, with lots of intricacies that would not be helpful to the conversation.
To your last post, I would disagree, sorta. Let’s get the good stuff out of the way, though: I definitely don’t think (and I believe @Simone_De_Beauvoir would agree) that sexism against men is a non-issue. I definitely agree there, and talk of a man not being “big” enough, or enough of a man to satisfy a woman, etc, whatever kind of comment like that, only helps enforce gender boundaries, and is therefore harmful to both men and women. A writer I mentioned above, Greta Christina, has a good post on that sort of thing you may like: How Sexism Hurts Men. Sexism in either direction is bad.
But it’s not like sexism against women isn’t rampant. Like Simone getting yelled at by ‘fratboys’, it’s not that isolated, it happens constantly. And women very rarely do the same to men. It happens, don’t get me wrong, but not nearly as often. And how many times have you heard or seen something about men sizing up a woman by how ‘fuckable’ she is? I’ve heard it tons of times. Not in major syndication, perhaps, but no less often for that. And have you heard of ‘The Game’, or pick-up artistry in general? Because that’s a large and despicable movement along the same lines, that preaches that women need to be tricked in order to get sex, etc. And of course they rank women by how they look, and state that anything below an 8 out of 10 is worthless. And I shit you not, i had a friend who was into this.
This is not isolated asshattery, it’s asshattery practiced by a large portion of the population. That is a problem worth working against.