Women– (How) Would you want to be asked to participate in a threesome with a couple?

If I was single, I might be thrilled, depending on the couple. However, as a taken woman, I would view that as a form of cheating so I will not participate.

Did someone ask you?

I’d love it! I’d die laughing!

@KatawaGrey I plan on doing the asking, but I don’t exactly know how to go about it, being in a relationship. It should be interesting though =)

@Facade: Oooo, good luck!

I guess in a straightforward way like any other question one might ask someone.
When I was asked that I said,“Hell no.”
...Very straightforward and effective,I must say.

@lucillelucillelucille lol, OK

I would first try to decide whether the woman would be at all interested in sex with another woman. That would be key, I think. If she’s not down with the cha-cha, she won’t be down for a threesome (involving a man and woman, that is).

If you’re able to determine that she’s open to the idea of sex with a woman, just let her know that you and your man both find her attractive, and that you’d like to include her. Best to be honest and straight-forward, like @lucillelucillelucille said.

@Seelix I was thinking the same thing, but how would I know?

@Facade – Is she a friend of yours? You could always bring it up during a coffee date or something – flipping through a magazine or noticing what song is playing, saying something like “Man oh man, I love me some cock, but I’d drill Lady Gaga until she’d need that wheelchair in the Paparazzi video!”

@Seelix No friends over here. I was also thinking perhaps I should try to make friends first lol
GA =)

@Seelix I like the sublety.

@Adirondackwannabe – Hey, if I’m gonna be face-first in her cha-cha, why be subtle? ;)

I wouldn’t.

@Seelix Point taken. :)

I would get to know the person first, and I would hope they would be friends. They were every time I did it. Just asking someone randomly because they look hot is not my thing. I prefer actual good emotions with my love making.

However, while it sounds like a cool thing, I don’t think it’s as good as the hype. It’s more a feeling of “how cool am I” than anything extra special. It’s generally about power. And while power plays an important role in love making, it can’t be the only thing that’s going on. Or else you become porn actors. Not my thing.

Hawt.

A “couple” of girls and I might consider it.
After a good rest and some vigorous training, of course.
Then again, I might just go for a nice walk.

Oops, I’m not a woman!!
Sorry.

I would love to be asked, but I’m married, so I’d have to say no. :( I think you should just out and out ask, the worst they can do is so no, right? Good luck!

I have been asked this a few times. If the people are good friends of yours, it’s really awkward when you say no. You feel like you have to say yes because it’s an “honor” to be picked, but you don’t really don’t want to. Almost like turning down a bridesmaid invite!

“You know something Bee, I/we would be thrilled if you would ever consider to have a hot & steamy night of passionate sex with us.”

I would thank them for the invite, decline tell them to enjoy the fun without me. So far, I’ve not crossed paths with any couples I’d like to join. There are times I’ve thought to invite friends of mine to my own relationships for some playfun but the risks of emotional complications haven’t been worth it to me. It’s been much more comfortable and drama free to be monogamous.

So coincidentally, my SO comes home and tells me that the woman we did it with last time is wondering if I am coming to NY (where she lives) with him (for the wedding of their mutual friend) because she wants to do a foursome with us and her SO! That’s wild haha!!

@Facade: “The woman we did it with last time”? You wild woman! Also, you should totally go for it.

And tell us all about it.

@Neizvestnaya – “You know something Bee…”

That totally freaked me out! Mr. Fiance and some of our close friends call me Bee. :O

@Seelix: It’s been a nickname of mine for some years, good one I say. Huzzah!

I would like someone to be up front with me. I’m a blunt person so that would usually work on me. I, would like to have a small date also to see the compatibility. I’m currently trying to figure a way to ask a girl that I have a thing for, if she would join with me and my BF for a 3some.