@YARNLADY When I was a freshman in college there was a trend of same-sex facebook marriages going around. This was in 2005, so most people only had their friends on facebook at that time, no relatives. And nobody took facebook very seriously at all.
Hm, let me think how to explain the mindset behind this whole same-sex facebook marriage trend.
-My group of friends was very internet-savvy and we had this very internet-specific type of humor that’s full of irony, exaggeration, and over-the-top silliness.
-Exaggeration was a big deal. Casual friends would say stuff to each other like, “I want to have your babies” or, “your boobs are hot.” The actual sentiment behind stuff like that was, “Dude, thanks for helping me move. That’s pretty cool,” or “cute top.”
– Obviously, the joking was often sexual. I think it’s a way for young people to show that they’re comfortable- but not really? with sexuality and homosexuality. Like a way of saying, “I’m cool enough to talk about it, but I’m treating it as a joke.”
Then again, straight kids who get same-sex facebook married might say they’re supporting gay marriage… I personally think me and my friends were being giant douchecanoes by making light of it.
Most of the people who got same-sex facebook married were completely straight, but everyone who did it was usually pretty good friends. It’s like an exaggerated way of saying, “this person is my best friend.” Obviously, the trend was pretty stupid.
I’m just guessing that this is what’s going on. Young people often joke about stuff that older people take seriously. One of my friends commented on a few of my posts and I wrote back, “Hey lady, quit stalking me!” This was a running gag between us and we were close friends. My grandmother sent me a worried note the next day, telling me that if this girl was stalking me I should take precautions like contacting campus security.
Humor often gets lost between generations, but get the internet involved? Phew, there goes any chance of understanding each other!