Okay, so here’s quantum mechanics (I, a non-physicist, am probably going to massacre this).
You can “zoom in” on your hand to see the cells that make it up. Those individual cells follow certain rules that, when working together, make your hand work a certain way.
Those cells, in turn, are made up of even smaller atoms and molecules. These units also follow certain rules that, working together, govern the way that cells work.
Zoom in farther, and you can see that the atoms are made up of even tinier units. In the center is a nucleus made of neutrons and protons. And those neutrons and protons are made of even smaller units, quarks. Around the nucleus is a whirling cloud of electrons.
At this level of “zooming in,” the rules that things follow start to look pretty weird. For example, you can’t say that an electron actually exists at any given place and time. Their existence is “smeared out” into waves—waves of probability. You can only tell the probability of an electron existing at any given place and time. Likewise for the quarks inside the nucleus. That seems weird, but we know for a fact that it’s true. The concept of “existence,” of something taking up space and staying there over time, simply does not work at this level of reality—just like your concepts of taste, smell, and pain don’t work at the level of cells or atoms.
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Now. Each one of these subatomic particles—electrons and quarks—has certain properties associated with it. Each one has a mass, an electric charge, and a spin. You probably know that electrons have a negative electric charge. But their spin is also important, because it’s closely related to magnetism. Basically, spin is what you’d think—it’s angular momentum, the same thing that a spinning top has. But at this level of reality, the spins only come in “chunks,” or “quanta”—just like charges.
So you have all these electrons—and they are all spinning at the exact same speed. But they’re not necessarily spinning in the same direction. Picture a bunch of spinning tops all floating in space, rather than laying flat on the floor. They all spin at the exact same speed, but they can be tilted any which way. (Except, even more complicated, these tops don’t even “exist” at a precise location and time—because electrons are at the level of reality where such concepts don’t make sense).
With me so far?