(NSFW) Do you have trouble finding "normal sex" porn?
For the life of me, I cannot find normal sex depicted in porn. Just a man and a woman, having sex. No foot fetishes, no midgets, no water sports, no DP, no DA, no extreme attempts taken to make the woman cry, no rape, no sperm ice cream, no bondage, no group sex, no furries, no diapers, no animals, no lactating, no cutting, just one man and one woman (or two men or two women) having sex. The closest I can get is finding “normal” sex where the focus is about 70% on the woman giving a blowjob whilst holding back tears and the man bitch-slapping her with his penis, 29% on some really bad intercourse, and then 1% on the woman’s needs. Which really just makes me want to give up on sex with men entirely.
So, is this just me? Or do you have this issue, too? Can you point me in the direction of “normal”, non-degrading porn? If you don’t want to post it here, feel free to PM me, I totally understand.
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I can’t help you, but I love you right now.
I have the same problem. It would also be remarkable if said porn also included realistic looking people… and no breast implants.
@ANef_is_Enuf And women who’s nails aren’t half an inch long, but still having “lesbian” sex…
The fingernails freak me out the most. Good call. They just look dangerous.
Coincidentally, I have been so interested by the whole choking while giving a blowjob phenomenon that seems to be so common in porn that it sparked a question for me somewhere back in my Fluther history. So, needless to say, I definitely relate to what you’re saying. I wish I had a solution to offer.
You can go to one of those sites that has a collection of thousands of videos and type in the search bar what you want. Try (nsfw) xhamster, eskimotube or pornotube. I usually type in something like, “couple making love”. Some amateur videos pop up, but sometimes those are the best one’s for “normal”, passionate sex.
There’s a good amount of normalcy on Gaytube. :P I prefer the more amateur stuff, which is often more “normal”.
Maybe I don’t know much about straight porn, but something tells me it’s harder to find “normal” straight porn than gay porn…
@mazingerz88 I know I can find something if I peruse it long enough. The problem is, I normally happen upon some sperm ice cream porn first, and then it’s like “Boner lost, forever. Going to go cry now”.
@MyNewtBoobs Now you got me wondering whether there is a site out there dedicated and featuring only normal porn…I’m clicking my fingers!
I think most of “normal” porn is amature and you can’t see anything anyways. There’s not enough girl-friendly porn.
@Pele No, there’s not. And not just woman-friendly, but non-pervert friendly. I mean, seriously, I try very hard to be ok with whatever you want so long as it’s consensual and no one gets hurt. But some of that shit…
I have never been able to find any either and I think it is because “they” said women are not visually stimulated and do not like watching. No one ever asked me if I like it when “they” took that survey or however they determined that result. Also I think before the internet made it possible for women to watch without having to pick up a video at the local adult shop or video shop, most were hesitant to be so public about their viewing preferences. I know in small towns word got around about who picked up which movie.
Yes, the porn output does seem a little fucked up & that’s just the midget section! ;¬}
@ucme On the one hand, I’m glad that foot fetishists and the like are finally having their sexual needs met. On the other hand, is it really too much to ask that all of the porn in the world not be focused on the obscure fetishes a very small minority?
I totally understand @MyNewtBoobs. I’ve wondered the same thing myself. I blame porn for guys thinking they can stick it up my ass.
I’m a guy, I can find you anything you want.
You’re looking for amateur porn. Go to your regular sites…. your redtube, youporn, etc, etc…. go under categories…. and click amateur.
@Pele And I blame porn for women thinking all guys are packing meat like a 12 pepperoni and can hold it for 45 minutes of solid humping or whatever.
Here, I’ll be the first man to fess up: I’m not and I can’t. (But I still like it.)
It seems hardcore, sleazy and demented porn is the norm not the other way around. ( Duh? )
@worriedguy I’m actually quite relieved when guys aren’t packing 12 inches (ow!) or going for 45 minutes of humping (seriously, it takes you that long to get off? 45 minutes should be a few rounds, not one long session).
@MyNewtBoobs Unless it’s one long session of getting off, know what I’m sayin’! Lol.
@MyNewtBoobs I always wondered… If it takes those 25 year old, hot, porn stars that long to get off with that hot a partner, what will they be like when they are 15 years older and their parts are sagging. What device will be necessary to get off?
Are they doomed to a lifetime of flaccid bits and memories?
@worriedguy Well, it probably takes them much longer, because they aren’t really turned on and are just doing it for the camera. It usually takes me quite a long time to get off when I’m not really into the sex or the partner.
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