Can you be physically fit, yet still have big breasts/butt?

I know women who were athletes in college and were built like brick houses. Their husbands, however, married them for their personalities and intellect.

Considering that those places are the naturally healthy places for the body to store fat on women, then yes, it is possible.

But really, don’t be shallow.

“I’m worried that I won’t be able to find a girl who has the whole package, yet still is physically fit.”

I’m worried that a girl worth dating won’t find your requirements anything short of repulsive.

Sheesh, if that’s what you have to worry about…

Yes, absolutely it is possible. Within reason, of course.

Anybody wanna claim that Serena’s not physically fit?

I didn’t think so.

Sure. Everyones physical makeup is different, no ‘one size fits all’ blueprint.
I am barely 5’4 and even when in peak shape, all muscle, and petite, small/medium build, I never look anorexic, always have a butt with shape, albeit the boobs lose their well rounded look. But hey..thats what padded bras are for.

If you have more muscle mass in your gluts they will not ever shrink to a smaller size. Boobs are just fat pockets, if your boobs are big to begin with you won;t lose much in that area.

Of course, you can be physically fit and be one of many-many-many shapes and sizes.

Yes and I hope you are physically fit also.

I second @jaytkay ‘s answer

@Drewseph : while I appreciate your basic concern about the health of the girls you want to be with, at this point in your life I’d worry more about learning how to interact with girls in general in such a way you’ll learn how to appropriately pick the (physically fit) ones you want to be with, later. At 14 or 15 no one’s physicality is determined…

Jennifer Hudson, Jennifer Lopez, Jordin Sparks

@Drewseph, I understand it when people respond to your question with advice about how you shouldn’t be shallow and how looks aren’t everything, but I want to clarify for them and for you:

There is nothing wrong with caring about a woman’s looks. Sure, if that’s everything to you, there’s going to be a problem. But you can’t make yourself attracted to somebody you’re simply not attracted to. And we like pretty people. I didn’t hear you claim that all you care about is looks, but it’s interesting that so many people seem to have extrapolated a degree of shallowness from your question that simply wasn’t there.

And yes, it is possible, if not common.

See: Kim Kardashian. But don’t date her. She sucks.

huh…? @quarkquarkquark?
“I didn’t hear you claim that all you care about is looks, but it’s interesting that so many people seem to have extrapolated a degree of shallowness from your question that simply wasn’t there.”

Check again… @Drewseph said:
”...to have big breasts and a big butt? I’m worried that I won’t be able to find a girl who has the whole package…”

What have I extrapolated?

It seems you haven’t been looking enough at naked photos of women to know it is possible. Use the power of the browser, you may.

@RealEyesRealizeRealLies, I’m sure @Drewseph will pop in here some time and clear this up, but, physically speaking, that is the “whole package” for some people. Forgive me for reading that in the most innocuous way, but I like boobs and butt and a certain level of fitness and, at least as far as appearance goes, that’s the “whole package” for me too. What it simply doesn’t mean is that I’ll only date a girl with those things. It’s no different than saying that a “smart, funny” girl is the whole package. The distinction of superficiality is itself a superficial one.

Yes it is, I run 3–9 miles almost daily, nearly an hour of ab work, and an hour of shadow boxing, so I’m pretty fit and I have well rounded buttocks. Unfortunately, I’m a guy and I see it as a genetic curse more than anything (Why oh why do I have buttocks that would look great on a gal? If there were such thing as God, I’d bet this is just one cruel joke).

@quarkquarkquark : There are a lot of good answers up there directly addressing @Drewseph‘s concerns. Maybe you could read those, too.

You’re worried that you won’t find a slender girl who has huge tits and a nice, round ass?

I’m worried that you’re being just a wee bit shallow.

Yes. You should see my former yoga teacher. She is very round. If you just saw her in stretch pants in Wal-Mart, you would never guess how she can bend, twist, stretch, and balance. (Actually her full figure was a little discouraging as far as weight loss through fitness was concerned.) When she did some kind of a forward-folding or knee-raising position that produced some bustly crowding, she’d say, “If anything is in your way, just push it aside,” and shove her 44DDs out of the way.

I don’t mean to sound harsh, but have you not yet figured out that we are all built differently and different things happen when we add adipose tissue to our body or exercise?

@RealEyesRealizeRealLies, @JilltheTooth, I find it extremely difficult to believe neither of you care about looks. What you’re taking issue with, although you don’t know it, is the apparent crassness of the question itself, one of a sort I’m sure neither of you would ever ask. Call it politeness or political correctness, it doesn’t matter to me, but I’m sick of men being maligned as shallow assholes simply for caring about appearance. Not only are women guilty of the same thing, but it shouldn’t matter to anyone either way. These are criteria like any other. And they’re personal criteria that others have no right to take issue with.

J.Lo.
Biggest butt going, nice boobs, and a friggin dancer, which requires plenty of fitness.
And when she hears what you want, she will crush you like grape.

Yes. Clearly J-Lo puts little value on the physical qualities she’s built a career on.

@quarkquarkquark : Please point out to me where I said anything about appearance not being a factor? Or where I maligned men? I gave some pretty cogent advice to a 14 (maybe 15 by now) year old boy on dealing with girls, which addresses essence of his Q. You’re painting us all with a pretty broad brush.
@Drewseph : As has been answered above, physically fit does not mean being androgynous,everyone is different.

@JilltheTooth, I apologize. Perhaps that’s some major hypocrisy on my part. I clearly extrapolated more than I was qualified to.

Yes you can =)
It depends on body type though.

Absolutely! You probably won’t find yourself in any fulfilling relationships if that’s all you’re looking for though.

Haha. Wow.
Yes, she can.
But I’d be more worried that women think you’re a jerk. ;)

I admire those assets as well, but to me that’s not what’s important in a long term relationship. My wife is quite petite. But fortunately for the hourglass figure lovers, it’s waist fat that is the most indicative of being in poor physical shape. If someone keeps themselves in good enough shape to avoid the love handles and spare tire look, they are less likely to have cardiovascular problems, diabetes, and a number of other obesity related health issues. If you’re fortunate enough to meet an hourglass figured gal who has a personality that clicks with you, go ahead and pursue her. She’s got as good a chance of making it into her golden years as her broomstick sisters.

It really depends on genetics, I have big breasts and no matter how much weight I loose I still wear a dd cup size, just the number around goes down. I have what is called a polish butt because I am polish and the polish women tend to have hips which I do. I run, swim, ride a bike and do yoga, but if you are geneticly inclined to have these things you just are. There is nothing you can do except plastic surgery to change it. A friend of mine whom was a size 0 still had f cup bra and had them reduced to a C through a reduction so it really is possible to have them. So good luck finding miss right……Just an FYI looks are not everything in a realationship though you may find a petite women with small breasts that is just perfect for you.

On the garage sale radio show this morning, a lady was selling an manequinn. She listed the measurements as 38”-22”-33”... yeah right.

Yes you can.. some people are just shaped that way genetically.

Growing up i knew skinny girls with big breasts.

and personally i can speak for my self.

I work out regularly and i eat very healthy i.e mainly fruits and vegetables and i do not snack . However no matter how much i do this my butt and thighs are always big in proportion to the rest of my body..

I have a black woman’s shape.

Some people are just shaped like that.

Women come in all types of figures. even when they are skinny.

For those out there who are worried their assets are too great, this article might be of come comfort.

One word: Serena

Could be fun.