What will you do facing a wishy-washy guy?
I was so upset with my sister when she told me that her boy friend does not have a firm stand about their relationship. One day, he told her that he’s so serious with her, but another day, he changed his mind. I suggested her to end up the relation that has never a certain aim. To my mind, his boy friend is a sort of coward, that’s why to leave him soon is the best way to do. Though, my sister can not do that for the sake of BLIND love. Some advices needed. Thank you.
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Is your sister some sort of virago that it requires courage to date her?
This is your sister’s relationship, not yours. AKA none of your business.
I wouldn’t worry about it anymore if I were you. :)
@MyNewtBoobs and @lucillelucillelucille I don’t see the problem with asking for advice for others on Fluther. Don’t we do it all the time? I’ve gotten tremendous advice asking about problems that don’t belong to me.
@Pipiii1520 I’d say your sister should give him an ultimatum: either be with me fully and consistently, or else I’m leaving you. If he doesn’t shape up, she really should leave him, and you should keep reminding her every day that it’s the best thing to do.
Thanks guys for the response! Anyway, she is not a sort of virago. Even she allows her boy friend plays some game in her heart. Yes, the best way for her is just give him an ultimatum. Thanks for the great advice!
@sliceswiththings -Ask away!
My advice is to not worry about it.It doesn’t get any better than that.Are you kidding me??
@sliceswiththings Except that in this case, the OP isn’t asking what she should do, she’s asking what her sister should do. The sister who hasn’t given any indication that she’s looking for relationship advice, or wants the OPs help in this relationship.
How long have they been dating? The easiest thing for your sister to do is tell him she is interested in a serious relationship and if he’s not feeling that then it’s best they split so she can be available to meet some guy who is.
They have been dating for more than 1 year. It seems the boy is doubtful to take a fixed commitment. I agree with you, Neizvestnaya , the best way is they should split due to the guy’s skeptic. I found she was fool facing him.
@sliceswiththings : I did not mean kidding you. I just concern on what’s happened on my beloved sister. Keep wondering, why she can be so fool like that!
@Pipiii1520: A year is a goodly amount of time for him to figure himself out in relation to your sister. He’s wasting her time now. Other quality men likely won’t approach her if they think she’s in a relationship she appears happy with. Time for her to put herself first and make a move if what she’s really after is a quality reciprocal relationship and not just a distraction.
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