(NSFW) Gay guys, questions about your "alone time"?

Hes talking about me. :) But yes, I reference nothing. I just go through the motions to relieve the pressure if you will.

Oh, and I just assumed, that any person who is straight, fantasizes about straight sex… but if you don’t, feel free to share your thoughts too.

I have to either look at porn, read an erotic story, or otherwise fantasize about men. Otherwise, it just doesn’t happen for me…

I’m gay, and I have fantasies about men when I masturbate.

I’m straight, I fantasize about my g/f when we’re apart.

People can reference nothing? o_o

Damn. what?
But something must be going on in your head when you’re masturbating, right?

Anyway, to answer the question, I’m gay and always fantasize about men when I masturbate.

@TheObjector See! That’s what I’m saying! Something must be going through your mind. How do you masturbate to nothing? But as I suspected, so far gay men fantasize about men, and straight men about women.

Lamp shades.

In all seriousness, I would think that someone would think about whatever turns them on during the process. Obviously its called stimulation for a reason. If men turn you on, or an act with men turns you on, then likely that’s what I would expect a person to think about when doing it. Same goes for if a woman turns you on. It’s like if you were to donate at a sperm bank, its why they have magazines that fit what ever it is you are into. I would imagine gay individuals would think of acts (probably falling into the homosexual category) and heterosexuals would think of heterosexual acts.

I will respond to this better when I am not at work.

I’m waiting Mowens.

Ok, so sex is not about the other person with me. Sex is about me. I want to get off. I have a primal urge to get off. I don’t particularly care how I get off. It is mechanical. Most of the time, I am pissed I have to jack off. I think to myself, I am going to masturbate now… I play with my dick a little bit, and then when it gets hard enough… I proceed with the masturbation. I don’t even think about other people when I am having sex. I am usually bored and just want the whole thing over with. Now… after I get off, I always swear off whatever method I used.

This lasts at most 24 hours. I then have an uncontrollable urge to get off again. I have even gotten off several times in one hour. It is basically get off until all urges for lust are gone. Given my life style, I usually only get to do this at night.

Sometimes I swear off masturbating. I lasted a week once, then I hooked up with 4 different people in 4 days.

I am a sex addict. Look it up. It isn’t about sex for us. It is about getting our next fix.

You’re no more a sex addict, than I am a food addict.

In professional psychiatric referrence, gender preference, gender identity etc. are on a continuum. No broad slash (no pun intended) between. There is attraction to males and females in all of us. Society teaches us the all or nothing thingie.

In psychiatry it is noted we are all basically bi with more tentacles (lol) leaning one way for one, and another way for another.

Is anything really cut and dried one way or another, black/white, good/bad etc?

Peace