(NSFW) For Women: Simple Yes or No answer, have you ever fantasized about having sex with 2 or more men at once?
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May 24th, 2011
I’ve been reading this book called “Sperm Warfare,” and the interesting topic of multiple sex partners at once, and fantasies women have is discussed in the book. I was just curious as to how many women actually have fantasized or fantasize about this. It is a very interesting book, read it !!
No need for detail, I simply request a Yes or No answer. If you want to elaborate, feel free.
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Honey, most of us have trouble finding one man.
I would then have to pretend that all of them were great and that they were sooooo faaaantastic and prop up a half dozen huge egos? It was great for me was it great for you? Uh, no, darling, it was just okay.
( No thank you, I’ll pass on that activity.)
Heck, I fantasize about making love to someone who doesn’t fall asleep on the sofa after the late news.
So, I think my answer is…no.
lol
I asked my girlfriend and she says yes.
The majority of the time.
(male side note, this is super interesting… I mean obviously a lot of guys have the reverse fantasy, but what little thought/talk I’d had on the subject with women seemed to leave most of them at least claiming they weren’t interested in being “tag-teamed” or something like that)
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I don’t know whether this has any effect on the way women are responding to the question, but it might. I don’t enjoy anal penetration of any kind – maybe that has something to do with my lack of interest in having two men at once. Just an interesting thought – ladies, you need not elaborate if you don’t want to, and I don’t think any assumptions should be made there, but it was just a thought that came to mind.
@Seelix This is true, let’s just say 2 men at once, No requirement of anal sex..
@tedd Yes, it is a fascinating question because most women will not talk about it. Although, it seems the majority so far have replied “yes.”
@Seelix in my experience, that isn’t a requirement. ;) More like a perk for those that do enjoy it.
In all fairness, I frequently fantasize about multiple women, or a mix of men and women. It would be unusual for me to fantasize about two people exclusively.
I never fantasize about multiple women. Two men, or just one woman. Go figure.
@addnone – I still say no. For me, sex is a personal, one-on-one experience. I’ve never had more than one partner simultaneously, and I don’t feel the desire to.
I know there’s no requirement of anal sex if a woman is with more than one man at a time, that’s just what came to mind for me.
@Jude – What about one man, one woman? Just curious.
@Seelix Nope.
I like the idea of having the lady all to myself. The men in my fantasies are just there for penetration. I don’t have to see their faces (odd, I know). One woman, on the other hand, it is everything. Her body, lips (kissing).. More intimate.
Yes I have, and I’ll just say fantasies are sometimes better off left as fantasies.
@jonsblond Because of the reality of it? Like diseases, awkwardness, or emotional baggage? The drama ?
@Jude that’s interesting, actually, because I am the same way. Women in my fantasies are very detailed, there is a lot of focus on the face and lips specifically. Men… I don’t think I even imagine a face. At all.
@addnone It didn’t thrill me like I thought it would, and it almost ended the relationship I was in at the time. I wish it never happened.
@jonsblond Oh wow, you actually tried it. Interesting. Thanks for the insight.
Uhm, YES. :) But I don’t plan on doing it in reality. :))
Having a fantasy does not mean you necessarily want to have the fantasy come to life.
How many of you who said yes to this question would actually do it if the proper people were involved?
I have never done it. It is just a fantasy.
The only time that I will be with a guy, is when my partner and I decide to have a family. We may go that route.
Like @jonsblond, I have had the “opportunity” and also as she says, it’s better in the mind than in reality. All the fun is in your imagination and the relationship dynamics can get really f***ed up.
@Blueroses Yah adding a guys prospective, I would never be cool with a 3-way involving me, my g/f (or any future significant others) and another man.
(its by in large why I don’t at all expect or hold out hope for one involving another girl, lol)
Wish someone would pose the equivalent question to the guys. I’m out for the day. : )
@mazingerz88 Do you really need the question to be posed? I’m guessing about 99% of the responses will be yes, lol…... but i’ll bite the bullet and do it….
@tedd Well yes, but let’s get some exact numbers on just how many and maybe get some data on specific motivations? There could still be room for surprise.
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Kids. this is general (maz and tedd). You’re gonna get flagged (mine will, too). Get your own damn question. ;-)
@Jude Oh sorry, did not notice it’s the General Section.
Yes.
BUT- Fantasy is so much different than reality. I had a surprise threesome once (two men) and it wasn’t all that enjoyable. Even though my experience with it wasn’t that great, I still fantasize about it sometimes, because in the fantasy, everything is perfect, instead of flawed.
Two men as in a threesome – yes, (although I think its one of those scenerios that work best in the realm of fantasy)
Two men as in simultaneously at the same time – no (that sounds somewhat painful and awkward)
Been there. Done that. It was okay. Nothing all that special.
I’ve tried but it never works. I just can’t really visualize a situation where my husband would be willing to share.
Yes. Opportunities have come up in the past for an F-F-M threesome, but I’ve never gone through with it. The dynamic was always somehow off. One person was jealous/uncomfortable, I was attracted to one person but not so much to the other, etc. I’ve never had an opportunity for a M-M-F threesome, but it would probably be the same way- difficult to get three people together who are all equally comfortable with the situation and on the same page. Bisexual guys are like… unicorns, or something.
Yes, did it, and enjoyed it.
I have as much of it as I can (which is sadly not very much; time/logistics are the constraint and everybody has busy lives)...
I thought about it..
fantasize NO.. doesn’t appeal to me..
yes i have, couldnt help it really. see two nice looking men well your mind wanders and your body goes crazy with wanting desire!
actually i thought about that last night. i know im terrible!
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