What critera do you use when adding people to your phone?
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May 27th, 2011
How do you decide if you’re going to add someone to your directory on your phone (to type in a name)?
If you have to call someone back? If you know them in person? If you know who they are? If you think someone may ask you for that number in the future?
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If I call them, or they call me.
When I’ve looked up their number about three times I finally get the clue that they shopuld be in my phone.
If I’ll need info or services from them in the future.
if it’s a number I’ll probably use more than a few times or one I should have handy (like the oil company or my son’s school). For people, my criterion is that we are past the point of friendship and it is someone I could see myself spending time with.
It’s easy enough to put people into my phone, so I don’t have any criteria, for that. My criteria depends on who I’m going to bother getting a number from. I find phones rather pointless in getting to know somebody, so when I do, it’s usually after I’ve known them for a while. Sometimes, that’s unavoidable, and that is, usually, the only times I’ll add numbers to my phone, I need to phone somebody for work. I’m not much a fan of texting to get to know people, and calling is such an inconvenience when you don’t live alone. But that’ll change soon, I figure.
I add coworkers that I may need information from quickly, everyone on my team at work, the cell phone numbers of people whose landlines I have memorized, people that move a lot, roommates and friends of my daughters (in case they go missing), businesses that I call with some frequency – mostly carry-out places, insurance agent, board members from volunteer events I work on, doctors, dentists, etc. and the police. Not 911, but the district station, the number you call for a car accident, foot patrol downtown, etc.
I carry a paper address book in my brief case, and have a back-up of that on my iPod that also includes people I only communicate with through e-mail.
I use the paper one the most. It has other things in it, like screen names for different sites.
If I need to call them, and might need to do it more than once, they go in the phone.
If they call me, and I think they might call me again, they go in the phone.
If I think I may need or want to call them again.
Job contacts, vendors, and customers that I have a shot at doing business with again.
Then there are the one’s I never want to talk to ever again, but put them in my phone book so I can see when they call so I can decline the call. I’ll list it as “so and so, no answer”. I have 2 or 3 of those. For some strange reason they are the one’s who never lose my number.
Mostly people whom i might need to call. I also add people from the received call list sometimes just to know who’s calling and if i really need to take that call or just ignore.
If I need to call them I add them.
But after that if I don’t call them or they don’t call after a period of 4–5 months I delete their numbers. If I happenb to ever need their help in any way I just say ” sh*t happens ”.
Not to mention that most of the times I do not answer to “unknown calls ” [ even the numbers I don’t know ] This because I have friends who do not change their numbers every 2 months .. I have the same number for over 9 years now.
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