I have always lived in the US, but have moved several times. My move from Maryland to Michigan for school was pretty easy, no big adjustment, except I really do not enjoy such a harsh winter. We were on trimesters, and one winter I took off, and lived back home, trading it for a summer session.
After freezing cold Michigan I moved to Florida. I loved it! The first couple of months was like being on vacation. Even once I started working, free time, any free time, was like being on vacation. Palm trees, clear blue skies and sunshine just feel like vacation to me, it never wears off. The people are mostly from the northeastern US, and so I fit in culturally very easily. There are more older people there, and I liked them a lot too. When I was in my 20’s they were very nurturing towards me. But, also lots of us young ones (now I am not so young) going out, having fun. I miss it.
My hardest move was to Raleigh, NC. I never felt like I fit in there, never felt very settled.
When I moved to Memphis, TN the first few weeks were very difficult. I was depressed, cried a lot. I didn’t expect to be so emotional. I had never been so accutely sad during a move. I didn’t hate Memphis, I just was so upset about what I was leaving. My job, my friends, my palm trees, the lifestyle. My biggest dislike of Memphis is the housing and communities. Where I live it is beautiful. My house is in the woods, French country style, all brick, really lovely, and all the surrounding area is similar. But, I hate the floor plan, and basically all the floorplans are alike where I live. The three things of wants on the top of my list for my house I did not get. The subdivisions don’t have pools and gyms and I really miss that (my subdivision is one of the few that does have a pool, but it is crazy small, full off children, should be in someones backyard, not for 400 homes). Also the crime is a little too violent and close for comfort. However, my husband loves his job, and my neighbors to the immediate left and right of me are wonderful. It’s a mixed bag to say the least. If we had built our own house I think I would have been much happier. An annoyance here is some of the cultural differences. I am frustrated quite often by customer service oriented things, I guess maybe I come off abrasive? Or, they are just total idiots, not sure. I never noticed this in other cities like I do here. And, the politics and religion here can be annoying, too conservative.