(NSFW) A question about male and female anatomy (details inside)

You forgot to put testicles as a topic.

I would guess yes on the clit/johnson, no idea on the labia/nuts.

I’d just like to know how this line of thought developed? Not that I have anything against it, but it just makes me wonder a little. And since they both are erectile tissue, I’ll guess yes on the penis size, no idea on the ball size..

I would say no on the balls part since the balls are actually the ovaries that droped to the outside I guess to fill the sacks of the labia so you don’t know how really big the ovaries are to fill the labia. The clit I think you are right in a sense, I guess.

Don’t know .. maybe a yes though I doubt one can be sure about such things.

One thing i can tell you: I would have a humongous clit.~

I don’t think there is any relationship whatsoever.

I don’t think it relates.

@rebbel Ha!

Remember that conversation with Juliet?? LOL!

I wonder if there is a relationship that men with big penises (is that the right plural?) have daughters with larger clits? If there is some sort of genetic thing passed down even when the gender is the opposite sex? And, do you mean at birth? I have a feeling weight and hormones partially influenced by environment after birth affect penis and clit size as we become adults, not to mention hormones in the womb, which may not be completely dictated by the genes of the embryo. Maybe athletic teenagers have larger clits? I am just hypothesizing, if their testosterone goes up as they push their muscles and physical ability beyond the average female?

Testicles are ovaries, whoever mentioned that is correct.

@lucillelucillelucille Hahahaha!!!! Oh, shit. I was thinking about that, when I asked it. I felt bad for her (that we brought it up)!!

What I wonder as an aside is what do men prefer, women with smaller clits or large ones? Or, if lesbian women prefer women with similar to their own?

@JLeslie see? It makes you wonder. I thought that it was a pretty good question.

@Jude I still laugh about that! I just talked to her the other day.No mention of that subject though XD

@Jude I just gave you a GQ. :). We should ask a question on clit size preference. Goodness knows people talk about penis size enough.

@JLeslie Go for it! :)

I don’t know the answer to this, but I can honestly say that I’ve wondered this to myself more than once in the past.

Can I ask you ladies do you really know if yours clit size is large or small, I personally have not a clue since I have no one elses to compare it to but my own.

Been told that mine is large(r than the average bear).

Now, my g/f and I are having a discussion about messed up labias.

Men have told me they find larger clits and pendulous labia unattractive.
Woman have told me they find larger penises attractive.

There’s a whole branch of cosmetic surgery geared to reducing women’s external genitals and augmenting men’s. Weird stuff, eh?

@Neizvestnaya -The men who have told you that about larger clits and pendulous labia simply don’t know what they are talking about or are expressing their very personal opinions. The opposite is true. Finding a small clit is tedious work and the pleasure of actually seeing the “apparatus” can be delightful.

This is just a guess, but I am going to say yes. I say this because the delightful Wikipedia article on this sensitive little button of female flesh mentions that women taking male hormones in preparation for female to male sex reassignment surgety experience a dramatic growth of their clitoris. So it makes some sense that if it were large to start with, a lifetime of male instead of female sex hormones would enlarge it all the more. Definitely {NSFW} but here’s an example of a big one. I think it’s pretty sexy looking. Wouldn’t be hard to find.

I have never heard men comment on the size of the clitoris. I need to ask my husband. I actually did not even realize there was a variety of clits and labia until I was in college, and I had looked at playboy magazines when I was young, and undressed in front of girlfriends too. One of my college roommates was not all tucked inside, it was the first time I knew that could be the case.

I have heard comments about nipples for sure from men. In fact my girlfriend and I have had conversations about it too. Small, large, pink, brown, areola size, etc.

Well if that’s the case, I’m glad I’m a female cuz I think I’d have a small penis if I had been a man.

@ItalianPrincess1217 Hahaha. Me too. Teeny.

@plethora: I’ve worked with hundreds of men over the years who have absolutely no hesitation to discuss or criticize women’s anatomy in my presence. I’m like the invisible human for some, and one of the boys for others. What I’ve gathered over the years is cringeworthy though. I can say most men don’t like the look of women’s genitals but they’ll say whatever it takes to fumble with them.

If most of the men I’ve known had their way, live women would have a little hole in front, a big hole in back, no hanging skin to get in the way, no body hair and giant round breasts with teensy nipples, the lighter the flesh all over the body and parts, the better.

Many years ago I was listening to a couple of DJ’s on the radio and one said more or less, “women should not be all worried about a little cellulite, c cups or d cups; when men get you naked they just look at you like it as a fun playground, they are not looking at minute details.”

@JLeslie That’s the truth. The important thing is to be the only naked woman in the room, so we don’t get distracted..:)

@Neizvestnaya Even after what I just wrote, reading what you wrote I would have to agree in my experience that would be the ideal for many men.

@Neizvestnaya @JLeslie I would be at the far end of that bell curve.

@plethora: Jellies are pretty cool :D

@JLeslie: There are many times I’ve been astounded to learn what men think about when they are freely expressing to each other.

@Neizvestnaya If that’s so, and I don’t doubt it is, I am so incredibly far from most men I might as well be from some other planet. I love natural 100% of the way. I love how a natural woman looks. Her hair is beautiful and also holds her delectable scent. Far far superior to razor stubble. I think that picture I posted a link to near the bottom of my post above is HOT. If I weren’t married and had a chance, I would truly love to give that lady some true tongue worship. To each his own, I guess.

@Neizvestnaya It doesn’t astound me at all. Also, sometimes what people talk about as ideals, have nothing to do with what they are willing to accept. I know exactly what parts of me my husband thinks are fantastic, and what parts are not really his “type.”

@ETpro Solid agreement? Imagine that!!

@plethora Ha! We probably aree on more than a few things, even though we’re pretty near polar oposites on matters of politics.

@JLeslie: You are so right though it takes a little bit of ego to digest when these things are between you and your partner and not observation of other couples :)

off topic: This is where they think I’m hot because they love me versus they think I’m hot.

@Neizvestnaya I am not sure what you mean? You say between you ans your partner? Which things? Do you mean your partner talking about you to others? It got me thinking, do men in serious reationships talk with other men about their SO? Or, are these observations of women they are not committed to?

@JLeslie: I agreed with what you wrote about men expressing their ideals but being willing to settle for outside their ideals and their women knowing if they are the ideal or the settled upon version. When I mentioned ego, it referred to knowing your partner’s ideals or preferences and not being that but still being the love of your partner’s life or somewhere abouts.

Do men in serious relationships talk about their SO’s as far as nitpicking them apart? Not so much that I’ve seen, they stick to the safer subjects when together like their ideals or what really gets them excited to see. I’ve noticed men will pick apart their SO’s for just about everything else though to other men but not so much the physical stuff.

My hypothesis is if a man picks his SO apart physically then he feels that reflects on him for picking/settling on “unattractive” and takes his status down among other men. I think that’s why men will talk about what they like and would like to have rather than directly what they don’t like about what they have.

@Neizvestnaya Makes sense.

@JLeslie Men never ever ever talk about their SOs to other men….EVER!! Only women do the “details” thing. Referring here to straight men of course. I would have no idea what gay men do, probably the same thing women do on this topic.

@plethora That is what I would have guessed. I would be shocked to learn a man talks about sex details regarding their SO with other men. I think men to just comment in an abstract sense, or other women.

All penises start out as a vagina. So yes, there’s a correlation.

@mattbrowne: So guys really shouldn’t be offended after all if I call them big pussies?

No, not at all ;-)

Sex transformation surgery works well because of the similarities.