Does anyone have to go through the annoying chat room secrecy with thier spouse/gf/bf/partner?

Is it just me, or is it really annoying when your gf/spouse, whatever is in a chat room and you walk into the room and they hit the minimize button right away then stare at you until you leave the room? My gf did that to me the other night when I went into the room to ask her a question. I don’t care that she’s in a chat room, but when she behaves like that I get really annoyed. Does anyone else feel the same or am I making too much of it?