I have chosen to be single for the last 5 years or so. Divorced after 22 years of marriage 8.5 years ago and was single for about a year and a half, doing my ‘work’, then dated an ex high school crush for 2 years, 27 years after the fact. lol
We had a great time, but distance ( we were 50 miles apart ) and my non desire for a bigger commitment trumped the relationship. We are still good friends and I know I could count on him for anything.
I had one other on again/off again exploration a couple of years ago, but, again, it was a long distance thing, and there was no way I would relocate for anyone these days.
I really, really, love being single after years of relationship, I am rarely lonely, love my cool little house, fixed up just the way I like it, I love sleeping in my bed alone, no one snoring, pushing me to the edge of the bed, disturbing my beauty sleep. haha
Sex? Well….my ex bf was THE best sex of a lifetime, I do miss that, but, not enough to have a FWB arrangement, not my style. I DO have a few toys and, of course, my ongoing joke about the turbo jets in my hot tub. lol
I’m content, happy, at peace, I don’t need anything externally ( except money ) to be a happy little woodsprite. :-D