@FutureMemory
I’m assuming that Obvek’s post was an observation about the discrepancy between the arrest of the (black) football player for wearing significantly MORE clothing (and appropriate clothing at that) compared to this dimwitted jerk.
(they made reference to this point in the article accompanying the pic) so if you didn’t read it, your confusion is understandable.
Lord knows I’m no fan of the “pants on the ground…lookin’ like a fool with your pants on the ground” trend among so many young people nowadays, but this kid only had the upper part of his boxers visible, no exposed skin and no nutsack and bare ass cheeks displayed for all the world to see.
And do I think that race played a part in these two separate incidents ? Yes, I think that’s pretty obvious when comparing the two incidents.
And I also think that it’s jerks like this who create negative stereotypes of transgender folks in the public’s eye. The vast majority of transgender people try their best to just blend in while staying true to themselves. The do their best to minimize anybody “reading” them. They don’t go out of their way to make a ridiculous spectacle of themselves. For the most part they just want to live in peace like the rest of us.
This guy is far more of an exhibitionist than he is a serious trans person and it’s obvious by his choice of attire.
That’s a ridiculous clothing choice for any female in public, whether a biological one or otherwise.
It’s obvious he’s doing it for shock value. The other kid was simply dressing the way he normally does in his down time away from his job. I’m not enthused about that look either but it is so far removed from how egregious is the conduct of this jerkoff.
I would definitely demand a seat change and if the flight attendant asked for a reason, I would simply shoot him/her a look and rhetorically ask “isn’t it obvious? It’s not that I’m particularly prudish about extremely revealing clothing or even nudity. But there’s a time and place for everything.
Its much more that I just find this guy’s attitude so extremely annoying beyond description for two basic reasons.
1) the incalculable collateral damage he’s doing to tons of transgender folks who merely want to be allowed to live their lives in peace without discrimination.
And secondly because he has no regard for the normal manners, common courtesy and decorum practiced by the majority of kinky folks of one type or another who firmly believe in keeping their kinky activities in the privacy of their own homes or in the company of others of like mind. When you choose to blatantly display it before the public at large, you’re basically involving them in your scene without their consent. That’s a big no-no.
The general motto I’ve read is: “safe, sane and mutually consensual.”
He fails miserably on the last two points. It’s neither consensual nor sane to fly dressed like that. And if there were any type of accident involving fire or a water landing , it’s not safe to be dressed like that either.
He’s basically being an egotistical selfish a**hole and that just pisses me off.