How do you deal with those days when you absolutely don't give a crap?
What do you do? Do you go with it or try to focus on something else?
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I was about to ask Fluther what time of the day can you safely start drinking without a sneaking suspicion you may have a problem.
I go to my woman cave. Sometimes I can stay there for days. lol
Just hang out the “Do not disturb sign”. ;-)
@Adirondackwannabe
My little Waldon Pond over here.
Turn off the phones, close the gate to my house, have a happy brownie, walk with the animals. Thoreau me baby! ;-D
@Coloma That sounds great. Do you allow males in?
@Adirondackwannabe
Only if they bear gifts. Which usually means the UPS guy. haha
The only things that get past the gate are the wild turkeys and lizards. :-
Love your attitude. Some guys really missed the boat when they didn’t treat you right.
Enjoy the hell out of it! :)
Well, ya know, it’s all in the attitude, maybe, instead of having a ” I don’t give a crap” day, just accept and embrace a ” I don’t give a crap” life! hahaha
I don’t mean in a super negative way, just in a generalized, ” whatever…it’s ALL temporary.” :-D
@Coloma That sounds wonderful. There’s no Walden Pond here, but there is an odd path that takes me to a huge open field next to a great big forest. I go exploring in there sometimes.
I wish I did cool stuff like that on my IDGAF days. What I really do is stay in my jammies all day, eat cookies, hang out in my online communities, and drink lots of wine.
@Imadethisupwithnoforethought It’s noon somewhere! :D
@Haleth so funny. Just got back from the local liquor store…
I work most of my “days off” so I don’t often have the luxury to mope around but when I do, I let myself vegetate at home, however it goes. A few times I’ve just laid in bed all day and watched one movie after another until I broke the funk. I allow myself to not be spot on all the time instead of picking apart the whys.
On days I don’t give a crap, I’ve done really stupid and dangerous things. Some time back, on lesser apathy days but still pretty I don’t give no fuck days, I tried to fix things, convince myself that it would be alright, or just tried going on. I guess you only do that when you don’t give a crap.
These days I just drink. It’s a good way to give meaning to things without having to do anything but give a blowjob to some bottles. At least, in illusion form. I think I like my older non drinking self better.
I sleep till 6pm have supper and go back to bed.
Cry, then think that we only get one life, wipe the tears away and get on with it. No use to nobody if you’re moping around.
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