Having your cabinets (entertainment units, book cases, dressers etc) secured with brackets into studs in the wall. We have earthquakes out here in California and a few of my relatives had all of their big pieces of furniture topple onto the ground (glass shattering, large items falling), and in one case, on top of them. My Dad is the King of bracketing stuff into the studs of our walls.
Making sure that your television sets are secured (with brackets and/or straps etc.) There was a news article in our local paper about how a baby accidentally pulled a TV and cabinet on top of her and it killed the baby.
Having a fence around your pool and a pool cover, and making sure that people (not just the parents) are always 100% vigilant when it comes to having children or non-swimmers in their yard. It only takes one second (of you not paying attention, by being on the phone or checking your oven) for a little one to fall in the pool, un-noticed to drown. You always hear someone say, “I only walked away for a minute.” It takes less than a minute.
Making sure that your area rugs have non-skid material on the bottom and that your home is free from wires and other tripping hazards that can be deadly to elderlly people and little kids. One of my cousin’s is handicapped and currently is confined to a wheelchair, but when she could walk with the aid of a walker and a cane, she took several serious spills due to the fact that their home was full of clutter and tripping hazards.
Keeping your pills out of the reach of toddlers. Both of my folks take a lot of medications and for convenience sake, they are often kept on the kitchen table. But when my nephew was born, we had to make a conscious effort to put the pills away, in a locked cabinet, or in a cabinet that was high up so that my nephew could not reach them. It’s sometimes hard to remind your parents that they need to do this step (because you don’t want to inconvenience them or embarrass them) but it is necessary, to make sure that the toddler doesn’t eat the pills, thinking that they are candy.
Installing alarms and other devices on your upper floor windows to make sure that your pets or children don’t accidentally fall out of the window. Some of you may recall that Eric Clapton’s baby son, fell out of their apartment window and died. That is for whom the song, “Tears in Heaven” was written for.
Parents (and teachers and other caregivers) learning to spot the signs of drug use, and cyber-bulling by educating themselves. A lot of parents are completely oblivious to the fact that their kids are on drugs, even though most drugs present certain behaviors that are pretty clear when you know what to look for. A lot of parents too, just don’t pay enough attention to what their kids are doing on a day to day basis. They don’t know who their friends are, or where they are or what they are doing. Most are completely clueless about who their kids are interacting with online or what kinds of sites their kids are visiting and whether or not their kids are being bullied (or are bullying other kids). Parents just need to wise up, educate themselves and be more vigilant, even if it means not being friends with their kids. If they don’t, our society will end up with even more kids killing themselves because they were “bullied to death” or accidentally over-dosing on drugs (including nitrous oxide and good old alcohol) because the parents had no idea that their kids were involved in any of those things.
Teaching all people, young and old, about defensive driving techniques. I was very lucky to have parents that taught me how to drive, along with taking extensive driver’s education classes in school. But I was never one of those kids who was excited to go out and throw caution to the wind. I’ve always been pretty sensible when it comes to those things. But I think you can instill sensibility into people, especially if the teachers are people that are respected by the students (angry parents and old fuddy duddies don’t usually work). Especially if there are huge penalties, repercussions and embarrassing/expensive consquences for driving poorly (tailgating, wreckless speeding and un-necessary lane changing, not using signals, talking and texting while driving, driving while intoxicated, tired or angry etc). Right now, people only get a slap on the wrist for drunk driving, and the other things usually don’t get any kind of punishment or social stigma attached to them. Lots of people think it’s cute to drive aggressively. We as a society need to change that idea. Kind of like with smoking. It used to be considered sexy and cool, now most people (unfortunatelly not all) think it’s disgusting and un-healthy.
Teaching young people (especially young women) how to be safe and protective of their hearts. Too many young women, grow up with these sicko fantasy notions of a knight in shining armor coming to love them and whisk them away to a life of love and happily ever after. They don’t see the signs of disinterest and disrespect and try to justify bad behavior, so they chase after bad people, or stay with them, because they are convinced that the bad person will eventually turn into the knight in shining armor. Instead of realizing that if they make better choices (choose better people in the first place) that they are much more likely to be loved and respected and to enjoy and mutually satisfying relationship. Sometimes the best people don’t come wrapped in packages that look like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie.
Paying 100% more attention to what is, or is not behind your car before you back out of the garage or driveway. A poor man in my town recently ran over his toddler with his own car. His wife had gotten out of their car, and the husband thought the toddler went into the house with his mother. The father had gotten out of the car too without the toddler. The toddler, being forgotten by both parents, got out of the car on his own and went behind the car. Then the father got back into the car to to somewhere else, and ran over and killed his own child. You should always walk behind your car immediately before you intend pull out, and check check check before you back up. Other kids can dart in and out behind your car in a split second. Just plan to pay more attention from this day forth.