[NSFW] Boring question #23: Which is as more romantic or better way of engaging in "oral fun"? [NSFW details inside]?

Romantic? You’re kidding.

Do you understand that the NSFW part goes in the details?

@johnpowell No one seems to get that part of the [NSFW] thing around here.

@lillycoyote :: I noticed. If people can’t figure it out they should just ban all NSFW crap.

His “dumbstick.” LOL

I’m not sure that romance factors in. And the preference definitely depends on the individual.

Jeez, if one gets THAT deep intop the question it is too late for them to figure they should not have opened it at work. Won’t keep kids from reading it either.

@Hypocrisy_Central the idea is that the subject shouldn’t have any questionable material in it. The “NSFW” tag should be in the subject line, but the actual nsfw content should only be in the details. The subject, which shows without clicking the question, should always be SFW. :)

Well they have it now…..so they can stop worrying.

@Hypocrisy_Central That’s the effing point of using the [NSFW], that’s how they know not to open it at work, because it’s Not Suitable for Work!!!!!!!!!!! You warn them.

“But soft, what jism through yonder penis breaks?”
I fink it was Shakespeare wot wrote dat….romantic sonbitch ;¬}

I didn’t have to get into the question to know you fucked up. It would be different if you were only here for 10 minutes. You have asked 781 questions. You know better.

Well, I tried…

I don’t think any option is romantic. I prefer to swallow, but that’s just because I find the visual of semen and male ejaculation to be gross. But that’s just me, not all women.

None of your options seem romantic to me.

The only way it would be romantic is if the guy said, you never have to do any of that ever again because I love you.
Sex in any form can be described as sexy, sexual, sensual, lustful, hot, steamy, or it can be flat, boring or just a form of exercise but I don’t think its the romantic part.
Romance is what you do before the actual act to get to the sex or after the deed.
Now the act of a woman doing is may be loving or even lustful but its far from romantic. I’m pretty sure the guy’s role in it has more to do with lust or sexual desire than romance as well.

It’s not really romantic.

But hey, you gotta keep soldiering on. Let it flow and get on with your business.

@KatetheGreat Hey. How you doin’?

I don’t consider any of those things to be romantic but I always swallow because I think that makes my partner know that it doesn’t bother me and, at that moment, I am focused more on his enjoyment than myself. I have been with the same partner for a long time and so I am perfectly comfortable doing this to him. I can’t say my answer would be the same if I was constantly in and out of short term sexual relationships.

If the act of engaging in sex is not romanic in the least…..why are so many people trying so hard to do it? If it were all just the mechanics, why not just have a booty call, it would be more efficient, and cost less overall.

I consider myself to be very romantic but I hate that for a lot of people that means merely that I like candlelight, flowers and chocolate. Or doors being opened for me. To me those things are nice, they show he cherishes me but they are not romantic on the deeper level. Romantic to me is a whole approach to life. It lies in making each moment special and being fully present in the moment so that you see it’s specialness and beauty. Life is short and I want to savor each moment to the fullest. That means that some effort is required to make each moment the best that it can be. What does this have to do with sex you say? (what the *&^%?” does it have to do with swallowing cum or sucking his dumbstick you say??!) The most romantic thing is sharing your love by enjoying each others bodies. By creating a physical expression of your emotional connection. You don’t decide ahead of time a policy of what is the best way to suck his cock! You let the moment create itself by being inspired to please each other. You give yourself to the moment and each other. You are most truly yourself and you follow that where it takes you. That will be what is most romantic IMHO.