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(NSFW) Would you prefer a wild night over a romantic night?

Asked by QueenOfNowhere (1871points) July 22nd, 2011

Wild fantasy night or a romantic making love with your lover. I always think if I love the guy, I honestly wouldn’t want a chained to bed cop, punishment, nurse crazy wild sex. Ha O.o

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lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Why would I want to limit myself to just one kind of night?
I would get bored.

QueenOfNowhere's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille Lets say in general, imagine a guy that you love.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@QueenOfNowhere If a guy learns to take of the romance side for his lady, he can get some real monkey love.

Pied_Pfeffer's avatar

You may need to explain what you mean by a wild fantasy night, in your opinion. For some, a romantic night with their partner may include some agreed upon new experiences that take the sexual relationship to a new level. My sister once told me that her sex life with her husband only grew better with time. Our parents pretty much said the same thing.

redfeather's avatar

If I love him, romantic. But I don’t love anyone, so wild night, please.

flutherother's avatar

With the right girl crazy wildness would be a distraction. I wouldn’t need or want it.

bobbinhood's avatar

I’m with @Adirondackwannabe. I enjoy both ends of the spectrum with my husband. It just depends on the night and the kind of mood we’re in. If he plays his cards right, he can even get me to switch from one mood to the other with little effort.

Seaofclouds's avatar

I enjoy both ends of the spectrum as well and some of our romantic nights turn out to be quite wild and some of our wild nights end up quite romantic. It just depends on the night. ;)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille Reminds me of a line from Caligula. ” A man needs both. For balance my lord” if I didn’t screw the quote up.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe He really had it together! XD

wundayatta's avatar

Is the relationship new or old? New = romantic. Old = wild.

KateTheGreat's avatar

A wild and crazy night if I haven’t known the person long, but romantic once the relationship gets a little more serious.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

I’m kinda the opposite of @wundayatta. In a new relationship, it’s all adrenaline and mad wild passion, the spontaneity of the new. In an established relationship then I want the romance, the planning, the creativity to spark the wild ;p

Cruiser's avatar

Both! Start out romantic and get wild later!

filmfann's avatar

I am all about romance.

King_Pariah's avatar

Combo of both, Start off the night with a bit of wild or completely wild fucking and then finish it with romantic love making, sure it may require setting up a couple different rooms, but totally worth. As a friendly acquaintance of mine said, “Why stop at one orgasm?”

MRSHINYSHOES's avatar

A real wild night, followed by a slow, wonderful romantic interlude.

Berserker's avatar

I like my nights where I stalk the land in search of human blood on which to feast.

King_Pariah's avatar

@Symbeline you can have mine. NOTE: My family nor I am responsible or liable for what happens to you after you feast on my blood.

Berserker's avatar

@King_Pariah I’ll get over it, in my lonely ivory tower, as I die in despair and solitude…

Sorry. Been playing vampire themed video games. XD

King_Pariah's avatar

@Symbeline No, I mean there’s god knows how many chemicals in my body that you’ll probably just die or develop some sort of cancer from ingesting it. (and I may potentially carry Mad Cow Disease, suck on that :P)

And I’m crazy over Hellsing (the manga, not the piece of crap anime that completely went off the story line)

Berserker's avatar

All the chemicals in my body and the ones in your body will have one hell of a party then, buddy! :)

King_Pariah's avatar

O.o

oooooh I like “suprise” parties. lol

Berserker's avatar

I first read parties as ’‘panties’’ lol.

King_Pariah's avatar

I like those too. lol

Earthgirl's avatar

What I would prefer would totally depend on my mood . It could go either way and both options have their own appeal. Wild sex is probably more likely with a new lover.

sleepdoc's avatar

I think wild would be my preference most times

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