Women: What does a guy have to do to win your heart?

Don’t be shy… I see you all lurking there.

I don’t know.
The people that I have loved romantically in my life have all had different qualities that made me fall for them. I could make a list of random qualities that I like, but it’s hardly a guarantee.

I might have written a more thoughtful response if you hadn’t rushed me. :P

Why would they spill this secret? It’d make the game too easy. lol

Treat me kindly, act the gentleman, woo me with their charm and humor…make me feel special.

See?! it’s just the stereotypical answer (no offense @yankeetooter)

Well, it really is what @yankeetooter said, but you’re forgetting the thing that gets you in the door: Chemistry. You can be all of those things, but if she doesn’t like you, she doesn’t like you.

There’s not really some set of steps guys can do to win my heart. My heart isn’t some objective trophy at the end of a race. It all depends on the individual. Each person has different qualities that I like about them, and there are a few ones I always want – but that’s just for me, those won’t be for all women.

I don’t know. Last time I dated someone, I was the one doing everything I could to win his heart lol.

But if I have to imagine, someone who wants to be with me because of who I am, and thinks we’d rock together. It has to be a win win thing I guess, although I’m sure I could have given a better example. But I’m selfish, so I can’t. XD

If he can cook, that’s always awesome.

I don’t know. When I look at the men I have dated and really fallen for, they are all different. Quite different and with traits that if you had said “would you fall for a guy who was…” I would have quite possibly said no.

They have all been intelligent, confident and funny. I have met other intelligent, confident and funny men who have not done it for me though so…...... yep, chemistry, whatever it is, matters.

I don’t know.

Yep, I don’t know. I’ve never been in love despite having been treated kindly by my ex. I hope I’m capable of it.

Make me laugh and treat me kindly.